5 Subconscious Things You Do That Make Others Ignore You
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Jae
I overthink a lot. From as young as I can remember I was made to feel insignificant. My grandmother had convinced me that basically I was only here to make other people happy. Like my soul purpose in life was to cater to everyone elses desires and completely abandon my feelings and needs. So I grew up feeling less than human and unworthy of love. It took a major toll on my mental health and my ability to have healthy relationships for a long time. I thought I had overcome all that for the most part until I ended up in a wheelchair and then I realized just how little I actually am loved and appreciated. At one point I was so overwhelmed feeling like I literally wished I would have died because I realized that I had lived my entire life for everyone else and now that Im not able to do and I need help its so easy to just throw me away like Im nothing. I reevaluated a lot of things and I stopped being so nice because I was too nice. Someone years ago told me that I was too nice and I didnt understand what she meant at the time but I got the message loud and clear after all I went through! Im still nice but I dont let people walk over me or take advantage of my kindness. You have to look out for #1 first! You have to take care of yourself first because nobody else is going to worry about you first or even at all! You are somebody too and you deserve to be treated with respect and people who claim to love you need to show it or leave! Dont tell me you love me, show me! Because anyone can say it and if you say just to manipulate me and get your way then you dont love me! If you cant give as equally as you get then you get nothing from me! I have walked away from friendships that I had for over a decade because it became obvious to me that I was in a one way relationship with them and I live on a 2 way street now! You dont come my way then I cant go your way! And yes I get lonely sometimes but Id rather be lonely than taken advantage of because Im not paying for a friend! Thats not how real friendships work!
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I overthink a lot. From as young as I can remember I was made to feel insignificant. My grandmother had convinced me that basically I was only here to make other people happy. Like my soul purpose in life was to cater to everyone elses desires and completely abandon my feelings and needs. So I grew up feeling less than human and unworthy of love. It took a major toll on my mental health and my ability to have healthy relationships for a long time. I thought I had overcome all that for the most part until I ended up in a wheelchair and then I realized just how little I actually am loved and appreciated. At one point I was so overwhelmed feeling like I literally wished I would have died because I realized that I had lived my entire life for everyone else and now that Im not able to do and I need help its so easy to just throw me away like Im nothing. I reevaluated a lot of things and I stopped being so nice because I was too nice. Someone years ago told me that I was too nice and I didnt understand what she meant at the time but I got the message loud and clear after all I went through! Im still nice but I dont let people walk over me or take advantage of my kindness. You have to look out for #1 first! You have to take care of yourself first because nobody else is going to worry about you first or even at all! You are somebody too and you deserve to be treated with respect and people who claim to love you need to show it or leave! Dont tell me you love me, show me! Because anyone can say it and if you say just to manipulate me and get your way then you dont love me! If you cant give as equally as you get then you get nothing from me! I have walked away from friendships that I had for over a decade because it became obvious to me that I was in a one way relationship with them and I live on a 2 way street now! You dont come my way then I cant go your way! And yes I get lonely sometimes but Id rather be lonely than taken advantage of because Im not paying for a friend! Thats not how real friendships work!
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Fan
I overthink what I'm going to say, I think.
I have that happen a lot with conversations where I want to try and talk but just can't, but I also have a feeling it's because they don't want to talk to me and are ignoring me, or they don't notice me, but maybe it's just because I think a little too much.
And I do often think way too much, it's hard to stop and calm down and focus on one thing, and when I want to talk to people I have so much to say but I want to explain it in the best way possible so they understand but I always seem to mess up
and I feel like I'm always so quiet at times- but once I start speaking it's hard to stop unless I say something embarrassing or the person I'm talking to has something to say
it's easier speaking to just one person
I'm starting to miss school a lot more now but I still have so long to wait: [
also is it bad that I talk to myself or imagine characters in my head interacting with me?
Like, I'll have my favourite characters or my OCs and they talk to me sometimes in-character sometimes not and they make me feel better or help distract myself from something weird or sad I saw or thought of and I wish they were real
I feel like most of them wouldn't even want to be my friend, really.
the three I think about a lot are all object show characters, Taco, Flower, and Airy
also Megan who is one of my characters
When I have more time I should watch more of these videos, they make me feel better.
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I overthink what I'm going to say, I think.
I have that happen a lot with conversations where I want to try and talk but just can't, but I also have a feeling it's because they don't want to talk to me and are ignoring me, or they don't notice me, but maybe it's just because I think a little too much.
And I do often think way too much, it's hard to stop and calm down and focus on one thing, and when I want to talk to people I have so much to say but I want to explain it in the best way possible so they understand but I always seem to mess up
and I feel like I'm always so quiet at times- but once I start speaking it's hard to stop unless I say something embarrassing or the person I'm talking to has something to say
it's easier speaking to just one person
I'm starting to miss school a lot more now but I still have so long to wait: [
also is it bad that I talk to myself or imagine characters in my head interacting with me?
Like, I'll have my favourite characters or my OCs and they talk to me sometimes in-character sometimes not and they make me feel better or help distract myself from something weird or sad I saw or thought of and I wish they were real
I feel like most of them wouldn't even want to be my friend, really.
the three I think about a lot are all object show characters, Taco, Flower, and Airy
also Megan who is one of my characters
When I have more time I should watch more of these videos, they make me feel better.
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Luigi
You sugar coat everything. I try to apply what I see in you videos because I only look at them when I am most desperate only to be crippled by the helpless futility of my efforts to fix the broken emptiness in my soul. Your videos only attempt fill in a mold witch is why they come out hollow and meaningless, only to serve as clickbait and a reminder of the broken hollow love the world try's to to throw around. You always cop out of the end of each video in the hope that we look past you as the problem. I will seem and be seen as a hater that wants to blame my unrest on some other entity but all I wanted was knowledge that would help me. sadly I clicked on this video to find some. I don't know a always come back at my lowest and most vulnerable only to get the next Psch2Blow to the gut but for some reason my desperate thoughts fills me with false hope. this will be different give them another chance open up; open you heart. I know you want to help but please try to be more realistic. We need to fix our problems not pacify the mind.
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You sugar coat everything. I try to apply what I see in you videos because I only look at them when I am most desperate only to be crippled by the helpless futility of my efforts to fix the broken emptiness in my soul. Your videos only attempt fill in a mold witch is why they come out hollow and meaningless, only to serve as clickbait and a reminder of the broken hollow love the world try's to to throw around. You always cop out of the end of each video in the hope that we look past you as the problem. I will seem and be seen as a hater that wants to blame my unrest on some other entity but all I wanted was knowledge that would help me. sadly I clicked on this video to find some. I don't know a always come back at my lowest and most vulnerable only to get the next Psch2Blow to the gut but for some reason my desperate thoughts fills me with false hope. this will be different give them another chance open up; open you heart. I know you want to help but please try to be more realistic. We need to fix our problems not pacify the mind.
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Harshita
This video said. why you get ignored. I said I don't give a fck. I love myself. nothing else matter. People are just fked up. they will fck ur life too. Let them do their own job I don't give a damn. No need of people in my life to prove I am good enough to talk. Who wants to be in my life will stay. who doesn't it really doesn't matter. I love people who are at my worst not people who stay according to circumstances. i understood one thing. how good u think of others they will show u that u shouldn't do that. I have always seen myself being misunderstood. People said i do acting, or they say you just want to look that u care but u dont, u just show off, whi said u to do it. and many more things. But i chose ti be kind everytime. but people always hurt. I dont know why. when i want to fo good. they misunderstand me. I feel like i will never talk or love someone. But that's not me. I still keep listening and understanding others. thinking if am not there for them who will they rely on. But there is no one for me. I feel bad.
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This video said. why you get ignored. I said I don't give a fck. I love myself. nothing else matter. People are just fked up. they will fck ur life too. Let them do their own job I don't give a damn. No need of people in my life to prove I am good enough to talk. Who wants to be in my life will stay. who doesn't it really doesn't matter. I love people who are at my worst not people who stay according to circumstances. i understood one thing. how good u think of others they will show u that u shouldn't do that. I have always seen myself being misunderstood. People said i do acting, or they say you just want to look that u care but u dont, u just show off, whi said u to do it. and many more things. But i chose ti be kind everytime. but people always hurt. I dont know why. when i want to fo good. they misunderstand me. I feel like i will never talk or love someone. But that's not me. I still keep listening and understanding others. thinking if am not there for them who will they rely on. But there is no one for me. I feel bad.
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Addractive_edits
My friends have been ignoring me a lot these days even my closest friend who i would have given my life for has been ignoring and hanging out with the one who has left a deep scar of truama in my life i feel very lonely because of that and can't focus enough on my studies i have been very loyal to them and would let them copy my hw eveyday even tho i feel bad leting them copy what i worked hard for but its like they don't care how much work i put in each hw i just feel like they are just using me for hw and dont really care about how i feel inside. i have been stressing and even breakdown a couple of times but no matter how good i am they just use me as a tool. i can't take it anymore. but there is still 1 year left till i pass my exams and depart from them so i am holding myself together until then. i just miss the old us when we would all laugh together having a great time. now it just feels like a group of girls who gossip just for making fun of others.
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My friends have been ignoring me a lot these days even my closest friend who i would have given my life for has been ignoring and hanging out with the one who has left a deep scar of truama in my life i feel very lonely because of that and can't focus enough on my studies i have been very loyal to them and would let them copy my hw eveyday even tho i feel bad leting them copy what i worked hard for but its like they don't care how much work i put in each hw i just feel like they are just using me for hw and dont really care about how i feel inside. i have been stressing and even breakdown a couple of times but no matter how good i am they just use me as a tool. i can't take it anymore. but there is still 1 year left till i pass my exams and depart from them so i am holding myself together until then. i just miss the old us when we would all laugh together having a great time. now it just feels like a group of girls who gossip just for making fun of others.
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Spam
At my workplace we have a bunch of shared content that has a few errors or topics that could be presented in a much clearer way. I tried for several years to get folks on board with improving that material, but I think in time it became interpreted as frequently criticizing and/or being negative. And so things dont get fixed/improved, and my feedback has most definitely been ignored. Its sad to say, but if your bosses are satisfied with the current quality level of the product (I. e. you fail after repeated attempts to generate interest in improvement) then it wont do anyone any good to keep pushing for something better. Stressful for all involved. Accept it, or move on.
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At my workplace we have a bunch of shared content that has a few errors or topics that could be presented in a much clearer way. I tried for several years to get folks on board with improving that material, but I think in time it became interpreted as frequently criticizing and/or being negative. And so things dont get fixed/improved, and my feedback has most definitely been ignored. Its sad to say, but if your bosses are satisfied with the current quality level of the product (I. e. you fail after repeated attempts to generate interest in improvement) then it wont do anyone any good to keep pushing for something better. Stressful for all involved. Accept it, or move on.
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shira
sometimes when i talk in groups or even at the family table- people either talk over me and cut me off completely or don't even realize im talking, screaming their name. sometimes they hear me but just blankly stare into my eyes without replying and then they go on to do other things. this happens to me so much i used to think i was cursed when i was young lol. and when i even walk with people, i always end up walking behind them and can't seem to be at the front ever. even when i try really really hard to. i got used to it mostly by this point. but does anyone else feel the same?
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sometimes when i talk in groups or even at the family table- people either talk over me and cut me off completely or don't even realize im talking, screaming their name. sometimes they hear me but just blankly stare into my eyes without replying and then they go on to do other things. this happens to me so much i used to think i was cursed when i was young lol. and when i even walk with people, i always end up walking behind them and can't seem to be at the front ever. even when i try really really hard to. i got used to it mostly by this point. but does anyone else feel the same?
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unknownstranger
I don' t dare watch the video cause i have already personal bleed for what i found in people, i am a black sheep. They Always talk about behaviours who cause to be ignored, but frankly i would like to see there are people disposed of tolerate and understand some attitudes and look my person complexively; there are many bad traits who are instead easily tolerate, while simple ways of being seem to cover everything.
Again they always preach on how people should be, never think about the right to search good people for us.
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I don' t dare watch the video cause i have already personal bleed for what i found in people, i am a black sheep. They Always talk about behaviours who cause to be ignored, but frankly i would like to see there are people disposed of tolerate and understand some attitudes and look my person complexively; there are many bad traits who are instead easily tolerate, while simple ways of being seem to cover everything.
Again they always preach on how people should be, never think about the right to search good people for us.
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Gaurav
Idk i dont match to any of those n im still ignored. Whenever someone i do or say smth bad to the ones who deserve it i still fell guilty n make myself the villan in my head i try to convince myself that wht i did was right but still my brains goes like(why did u say that even if they did smth worse or like that(ur the bad person cuz u said that to them it dosent matter what they did)
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Idk i dont match to any of those n im still ignored. Whenever someone i do or say smth bad to the ones who deserve it i still fell guilty n make myself the villan in my head i try to convince myself that wht i did was right but still my brains goes like(why did u say that even if they did smth worse or like that(ur the bad person cuz u said that to them it dosent matter what they did)
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After
I only read a book on public trains and subways because I'm uncomfortable staring at other people's faces all the time, so I use that time to do something important to me, in reading a book I always pulled back, because of the lack of time to read it. But I'm not the type of person who carries their smartphone around all the time and doesn't pay attention to the outside.
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I only read a book on public trains and subways because I'm uncomfortable staring at other people's faces all the time, so I use that time to do something important to me, in reading a book I always pulled back, because of the lack of time to read it. But I'm not the type of person who carries their smartphone around all the time and doesn't pay attention to the outside.
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O. T. W. O.
I just say to heck with it, and have become a lone wolf. Social life is overrated and I've been better off by myself than running with a crowd. Sometimes, for some of us, thats the best option and there's absolutely nothing wrong with that! Id rather be alone anyways, it'll make things easier not only for myself but everyone else too
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I just say to heck with it, and have become a lone wolf. Social life is overrated and I've been better off by myself than running with a crowd. Sometimes, for some of us, thats the best option and there's absolutely nothing wrong with that! Id rather be alone anyways, it'll make things easier not only for myself but everyone else too
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Korva_Avia
Ebony counselling for like 35 years beautiful things, and you know what some things are just too difficult to change, for some of us it's better just to know what the problem is and just adapt our socialized accordingly. This has always happened to me. I got enough things to work on my life, I'll just sit there and happily smile
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Ebony counselling for like 35 years beautiful things, and you know what some things are just too difficult to change, for some of us it's better just to know what the problem is and just adapt our socialized accordingly. This has always happened to me. I got enough things to work on my life, I'll just sit there and happily smile
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Jonah
Im not good at seeing the bright side, heres an example, whenever i go to do something fun or have some kind of cool plan, i have just excepted that theres always going to be something that goes wrong, thats also why i dont make plans, and when something goes right, i just expect the next wrong thing to be even worse than uaual
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Im not good at seeing the bright side, heres an example, whenever i go to do something fun or have some kind of cool plan, i have just excepted that theres always going to be something that goes wrong, thats also why i dont make plans, and when something goes right, i just expect the next wrong thing to be even worse than uaual
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author_artist_ajr
One thing that annoys me (and I used to do it, now a younger friend of mine does it) is someone who is childish or needy, like for example when I was younger I would always text my friend (the only one I had) WAY too much. Now one of my friends does something similar.
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One thing that annoys me (and I used to do it, now a younger friend of mine does it) is someone who is childish or needy, like for example when I was younger I would always text my friend (the only one I had) WAY too much. Now one of my friends does something similar.
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Z.
Reasons Other People Ignore You
1. You don't listen.
2. You criticize too much.
3. You are full of negativity.
4. Your presence doesn't grab attention. Be confident. Work on body language when engaged in conversations.
5. You overthink what you are going to say.
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Reasons Other People Ignore You
1. You don't listen.
2. You criticize too much.
3. You are full of negativity.
4. Your presence doesn't grab attention. Be confident. Work on body language when engaged in conversations.
5. You overthink what you are going to say.
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Samrae
It's not hard to be ignored by people. I live with that.
The hardest part is when I get ignored by people I give time and attention to, they just can't give the same energy at all. That hurts a lot specially if u just have few people around. But I begin to live with it.
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It's not hard to be ignored by people. I live with that.
The hardest part is when I get ignored by people I give time and attention to, they just can't give the same energy at all. That hurts a lot specially if u just have few people around. But I begin to live with it.
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Brigette
Awww, I remember watching this trying to figure out why I had no friends even though I knew the answer was that I kept rejecting myself before anyone else could. I have friends now though! Someone helped me get the confidence to be with everyone else! I love him so much
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Awww, I remember watching this trying to figure out why I had no friends even though I knew the answer was that I kept rejecting myself before anyone else could. I have friends now though! Someone helped me get the confidence to be with everyone else! I love him so much
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Stanislav
For me it's hard to imagine the person that is constantly ignored. In all cases including rude criticism and negativity the person will have a reaction from others that will definitely be quite unpleasant although it won't be any sort of ignoring.
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For me it's hard to imagine the person that is constantly ignored. In all cases including rude criticism and negativity the person will have a reaction from others that will definitely be quite unpleasant although it won't be any sort of ignoring.
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KeithInMotion
Ya know, this may be old, but, thanks for reminding me here, Psych2Go! That's probably why i keep getting ignored most of the time.
This video helped me realized about all the actions I've done, so thanks for reminding me about this!
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Ya know, this may be old, but, thanks for reminding me here, Psych2Go! That's probably why i keep getting ignored most of the time.
This video helped me realized about all the actions I've done, so thanks for reminding me about this!
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EnCHanTeD
i just leave those who ignore and make new friends tbh, im done with people that ignore, sometimes they even question me why i just left them, i means its their fault and its like they care, if they do care they make it hard to see it
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i just leave those who ignore and make new friends tbh, im done with people that ignore, sometimes they even question me why i just left them, i means its their fault and its like they care, if they do care they make it hard to see it
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KrysB
Thumbs down
People don't like to talk to me because I'm deaf and hard of hearing.
I'm not like them and they're not going to change their ways to learn how to communicate with me.
Hearing people are the worse kind of people.
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Thumbs down
People don't like to talk to me because I'm deaf and hard of hearing.
I'm not like them and they're not going to change their ways to learn how to communicate with me.
Hearing people are the worse kind of people.
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Just
Its not the negative things its that I am being too nice or generous to people. When you be generous for quite a time to people will start to take it for granted and use it to reach their goal and leave you behind in the dust afterwards.
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Its not the negative things its that I am being too nice or generous to people. When you be generous for quite a time to people will start to take it for granted and use it to reach their goal and leave you behind in the dust afterwards.
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Sanjeeban
For me I thnk that I am mostly ignored by others in online and offline conversations beacuse of my underconfident body language but it's not that. I am confident but my body isn't that perfect and slim. So maybe that is my dismay
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For me I thnk that I am mostly ignored by others in online and offline conversations beacuse of my underconfident body language but it's not that. I am confident but my body isn't that perfect and slim. So maybe that is my dismay
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education
If your want to be memorable, act in a way that will help people remember you in a positive way. Compliment someone, make a joke, do something nice for them. These things will help others to remember how you made them feel.
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If your want to be memorable, act in a way that will help people remember you in a positive way. Compliment someone, make a joke, do something nice for them. These things will help others to remember how you made them feel.
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education
But I dont do any of them. :( I get ignored because they say I am boring and the things I like are wierd. I tried my best to act kind and complement everyone but they say they dont care so what can I do? :(
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But I dont do any of them. :( I get ignored because they say I am boring and the things I like are wierd. I tried my best to act kind and complement everyone but they say they dont care so what can I do? :(
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