How to Show Your Crush You Like Them Without SCARING Them Away
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Chrisenk
Two months ago I had a crush on a girl and I didn't know how to contact her. The situation was and is like this: I am working as a cashier in a supermarket and she comes regularly to buy there. She came very often to my checkout the last months and her smile made me nervous in the good way. And she smiled on me even when she was seeing me without being at my checkout.
As I am not good at starting conversation out of the blue, I tried something: I prepared a piece of paper with my cell phone number and a small message to invite her to a cup of coffee. When she came to my checkout one day (it was two months ago, I gave the piece of paper to her secretly wrapped in the receipt. After two days, she sent me a message: she was very kind and thought that the idea with the message was great, but unluckily she was meeting someone else at that time.
At first, I was a bit disappointed - not from her, but from myself, because I might have hoped to hard. However, instead of being passive; I did something to make her notice me - which I never did before as I am a bit shy when it comes to contact other people especially women I like in a romantic way.
That is my story how I contacted my crush. Thank you for reading it.
P. S.: She said no in a friendly way and I respect this; so I have not contacted her any more.
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Two months ago I had a crush on a girl and I didn't know how to contact her. The situation was and is like this: I am working as a cashier in a supermarket and she comes regularly to buy there. She came very often to my checkout the last months and her smile made me nervous in the good way. And she smiled on me even when she was seeing me without being at my checkout.
As I am not good at starting conversation out of the blue, I tried something: I prepared a piece of paper with my cell phone number and a small message to invite her to a cup of coffee. When she came to my checkout one day (it was two months ago, I gave the piece of paper to her secretly wrapped in the receipt. After two days, she sent me a message: she was very kind and thought that the idea with the message was great, but unluckily she was meeting someone else at that time.
At first, I was a bit disappointed - not from her, but from myself, because I might have hoped to hard. However, instead of being passive; I did something to make her notice me - which I never did before as I am a bit shy when it comes to contact other people especially women I like in a romantic way.
That is my story how I contacted my crush. Thank you for reading it.
P. S.: She said no in a friendly way and I respect this; so I have not contacted her any more.
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Angel
I mean. tbh. Idk if I actually do have a crush on him yet and he seems like a good candidate. So a little back story here. We met about a week and a half ago on a dating app and what drew my attention to him was his long a messages that'd he sent me. I always enjoy a convo online soo I tried to give the same the enrgy back, which i did. Well, we kept of talking for a few days mainly about exams, uni stuff, our interest, ambitions and about yesterday he asked me if i wanna cotinue our lil chitchat on ig and i was intenting to ask him the exact same thing. Anyway today i tried to make my first move i offered to teach him how to play the piano caz he is looing foward to tkae it up some day lol Idk is that flirting or?
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I mean. tbh. Idk if I actually do have a crush on him yet and he seems like a good candidate. So a little back story here. We met about a week and a half ago on a dating app and what drew my attention to him was his long a messages that'd he sent me. I always enjoy a convo online soo I tried to give the same the enrgy back, which i did. Well, we kept of talking for a few days mainly about exams, uni stuff, our interest, ambitions and about yesterday he asked me if i wanna cotinue our lil chitchat on ig and i was intenting to ask him the exact same thing. Anyway today i tried to make my first move i offered to teach him how to play the piano caz he is looing foward to tkae it up some day lol Idk is that flirting or?
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StormingStarling
Psych2go do you have any advice on getting to know your crush when youve already told told them you like them?
I told a girl that I liked her on Valentines Day (she said she didnt know if she would go out with me) and Im not sure what would be best for me to do since we were pretty distant towards the last few months of school.
Should I give up or is there a better approach to this situation and if anyone else sees this do you have any advice for a hopeless romantic like me?
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Psych2go do you have any advice on getting to know your crush when youve already told told them you like them?
I told a girl that I liked her on Valentines Day (she said she didnt know if she would go out with me) and Im not sure what would be best for me to do since we were pretty distant towards the last few months of school.
Should I give up or is there a better approach to this situation and if anyone else sees this do you have any advice for a hopeless romantic like me?
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suspiciousmonkey
Hello yes i told my crush that i liked her. Although after watching this vid, i realized i did things the wrong way. i went too fast. I was too shy to talk to her, or even spend time with her. I didn't know what to do so I just told her at the end of the school year. She said she was flattered but unfortunately, she doesn't like me back. She is not into girls. I thanked her and we never talked about it again. We did stop talking eventually, we went our seperate ways. I miss her tho
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Hello yes i told my crush that i liked her. Although after watching this vid, i realized i did things the wrong way. i went too fast. I was too shy to talk to her, or even spend time with her. I didn't know what to do so I just told her at the end of the school year. She said she was flattered but unfortunately, she doesn't like me back. She is not into girls. I thanked her and we never talked about it again. We did stop talking eventually, we went our seperate ways. I miss her tho
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Karly
I just developed a crush on one of my best guy friends and its tough bc hes talking to this other girl. But he def deserves better than her bc shes an a hole. Theres also a slight age gap (really not a big one) but I think it would work our fine since Ive known him my whole life. Its only a matter of time before he knows I like him though bc im friends with his guy friends and they figured it out
Sorry for my rant, looking back on it now I realize it doesnt even make much sense
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I just developed a crush on one of my best guy friends and its tough bc hes talking to this other girl. But he def deserves better than her bc shes an a hole. Theres also a slight age gap (really not a big one) but I think it would work our fine since Ive known him my whole life. Its only a matter of time before he knows I like him though bc im friends with his guy friends and they figured it out
Sorry for my rant, looking back on it now I realize it doesnt even make much sense
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Dave
Let them know your feelings and Flirty hints Yeah, that only works for girls these days. To do that as a guy is too much of a gamble. If they do not feel the same way, chances are high they feel you crossed their boundaries and intimidated them. Even the subtle hints can be very dangerous. People have lost their jobs for less.
I let women do all the work and conquer me. I fancy keeping a job and my life.
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Let them know your feelings and Flirty hints Yeah, that only works for girls these days. To do that as a guy is too much of a gamble. If they do not feel the same way, chances are high they feel you crossed their boundaries and intimidated them. Even the subtle hints can be very dangerous. People have lost their jobs for less.
I let women do all the work and conquer me. I fancy keeping a job and my life.
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Red
I fin'lly admitted to my crush about my feelings thru chat last week because he was persistent to know, only to find out that he will ve leaving our company after 2 months. I cried a lot. I was ready to fall in love but nothing happened He said he likes me too but he dnt believe in love and we will just hurt ourselves when we do commit so we are awkward at work after that. I wish I did not tell him
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I fin'lly admitted to my crush about my feelings thru chat last week because he was persistent to know, only to find out that he will ve leaving our company after 2 months. I cried a lot. I was ready to fall in love but nothing happened He said he likes me too but he dnt believe in love and we will just hurt ourselves when we do commit so we are awkward at work after that. I wish I did not tell him
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Eggy
I remember we started talking about our crushes and she described me perfectly but we still kept our crushes hidden so the next day I just say my crush is hers
She also sent her cousin to find out my crush and it was the most obvious things
and there were so many obvious hints lol
(i don't know how to give hints that well so yeah)
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I remember we started talking about our crushes and she described me perfectly but we still kept our crushes hidden so the next day I just say my crush is hers
She also sent her cousin to find out my crush and it was the most obvious things
and there were so many obvious hints lol
(i don't know how to give hints that well so yeah)
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education
Remember they're just HUMAN too. The most UNATTRACTIVE thing
you can do is PUT THEM
UP ON a PEDESTAL & WORSHIP & FAWN ALL
OVER THEM. They will LOSE
RESPECT for you & RESENT you for the PRESSURE & not find you ATTRACTIVE. Try to just BE YOURSELF & BE REAL & AUNTHENTIC then they can
actually get to KNOW you.
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Remember they're just HUMAN too. The most UNATTRACTIVE thing
you can do is PUT THEM
UP ON a PEDESTAL & WORSHIP & FAWN ALL
OVER THEM. They will LOSE
RESPECT for you & RESENT you for the PRESSURE & not find you ATTRACTIVE. Try to just BE YOURSELF & BE REAL & AUNTHENTIC then they can
actually get to KNOW you.
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Scarlet
I have a crush on a boy, he's only two years older than me, but he goes to a different school and his brother already has a girlfriend, so there is a good chance that he doesn't have a crush on me, and it would be awkward for both of us when he goes: Oh yeah, um, I've noticed you like me. I kinda have my own girl.
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I have a crush on a boy, he's only two years older than me, but he goes to a different school and his brother already has a girlfriend, so there is a good chance that he doesn't have a crush on me, and it would be awkward for both of us when he goes: Oh yeah, um, I've noticed you like me. I kinda have my own girl.
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Jeremy
Looks at crush while both on swings:
I think I.
Stares at her for a minute
Finishes with: Take your time to think
Gets up and walks away head down hands in pockets shoulders hunched oh! So that's how you tell your crush you have feelings for them? got this
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Looks at crush while both on swings:
I think I.
Stares at her for a minute
Finishes with: Take your time to think
Gets up and walks away head down hands in pockets shoulders hunched oh! So that's how you tell your crush you have feelings for them? got this
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PanGkiok888
I am sorry but what if my crush leaves when I want to talk to her on the party you told? That will be very akward!
edit: I am very afraid of telling I like her because I think she will dislike me and avoid me. I don't want to take risks!
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I am sorry but what if my crush leaves when I want to talk to her on the party you told? That will be very akward!
edit: I am very afraid of telling I like her because I think she will dislike me and avoid me. I don't want to take risks!
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Minifig
I think I like a girl in my class, Im probably going to start by first telling her best friend (who I am friends with. After that Ill ask him for advice and use the steps I learned in this vid. I have summer break rn so Ill start after.
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I think I like a girl in my class, Im probably going to start by first telling her best friend (who I am friends with. After that Ill ask him for advice and use the steps I learned in this vid. I have summer break rn so Ill start after.
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Brantmaster502
Honestly, idk if this will work because Ive known them for about a year now and I dont think they will say yes because they probably dont have the same feelings for them as me. But I will edit this comment and tell the answer.
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Honestly, idk if this will work because Ive known them for about a year now and I dont think they will say yes because they probably dont have the same feelings for them as me. But I will edit this comment and tell the answer.
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Friedl
I gave a BIG crush but I'm very shy.
1 problem: I'm 13 and he's 20, but I try to flirt with him (never flirted be4) he's so careful, lovely I just love him so much. My old crush did all these signs to me too
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I gave a BIG crush but I'm very shy.
1 problem: I'm 13 and he's 20, but I try to flirt with him (never flirted be4) he's so careful, lovely I just love him so much. My old crush did all these signs to me too
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mistik
I confessed to my crush, but she hasn't replied for a year. However, she didn't block me from anywhere and isn't trying to get away from me in school, so I am really confused. Please tell me what to do now
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I confessed to my crush, but she hasn't replied for a year. However, she didn't block me from anywhere and isn't trying to get away from me in school, so I am really confused. Please tell me what to do now
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realwetter_yt
imagen manipulating there brain to tell you they like you so u dont have to tell it or imagen let them ask for the feelings so u dont have to say it randomly; )
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imagen manipulating there brain to tell you they like you so u dont have to tell it or imagen let them ask for the feelings so u dont have to say it randomly; )
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education
I'm very scared to confess to my crush, I have many crush's in my school, i don't know how to flirt and i haven't even talk with him in Just at least one letter
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I'm very scared to confess to my crush, I have many crush's in my school, i don't know how to flirt and i haven't even talk with him in Just at least one letter
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Micheal
Im going to tell my crush that I like them today and I just watched this video and and going to try all the tips you shared thank you so much and wish me luck
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Im going to tell my crush that I like them today and I just watched this video and and going to try all the tips you shared thank you so much and wish me luck
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Karis
Genuine Question: what if my crush moved and now lives 6 hours away? how will i express my feelings? continue to just text and snapchat? anybody can answer!
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Genuine Question: what if my crush moved and now lives 6 hours away? how will i express my feelings? continue to just text and snapchat? anybody can answer!
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AllexMallo
But i did do that but she wont come out after i told her that i have feelings for her. .. I did it step by step but i thingk shes breedcruming me
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But i did do that but she wont come out after i told her that i have feelings for her. .. I did it step by step but i thingk shes breedcruming me
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ThatGayFurry127
Im trying to do it on the first day of school so I dont have to worry all year about it even though Ive waited for 3 months now
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Im trying to do it on the first day of school so I dont have to worry all year about it even though Ive waited for 3 months now
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Javier
Confess is game over most of the time in my experience. Asking out is way better and give you more chances or a clear sign of interest
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Confess is game over most of the time in my experience. Asking out is way better and give you more chances or a clear sign of interest
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No
I gave my crush hostile looks and I avoided them like the plague because they were married. I look forward to death. No Serial Killer.
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I gave my crush hostile looks and I avoided them like the plague because they were married. I look forward to death. No Serial Killer.
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STUARTS
I like someone and he goes out of his way to talk to me and it makes me feel special but I just get so nervous around him
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I like someone and he goes out of his way to talk to me and it makes me feel special but I just get so nervous around him
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