9 Signs You Have Untreated Trauma
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Can you talk about medical trauma next? You talked a lot about abandonment and child abuse, but people completely skim past the signs of early childhood medical trauma. I've known people who have developed DID as a result. It's also very serious. I'm not minimizing child abuse or anything like that, but when your a toddler and your literally dragged to a room, tied up, and have a tube shoved down your throat while angry impatient voices shout at you to calm down. that's traumatic. At 2 your brain doesn't differentiate. I'm not saying just getting a shot and being scared of it as a child, but worse. But having five people standing around you who you think are gonna hurt you but are supposed to help you sucks. There needs to be more laws on this stuff. I swear the people I see screwed up from medical trauma grows everyday. I'm not talking about an experience when you are an adult and scared of a procedure, I'm not talking about later childhood experiences. I'm talking very early early childhood experiences most don't go through at that age.
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Can you talk about medical trauma next? You talked a lot about abandonment and child abuse, but people completely skim past the signs of early childhood medical trauma. I've known people who have developed DID as a result. It's also very serious. I'm not minimizing child abuse or anything like that, but when your a toddler and your literally dragged to a room, tied up, and have a tube shoved down your throat while angry impatient voices shout at you to calm down. that's traumatic. At 2 your brain doesn't differentiate. I'm not saying just getting a shot and being scared of it as a child, but worse. But having five people standing around you who you think are gonna hurt you but are supposed to help you sucks. There needs to be more laws on this stuff. I swear the people I see screwed up from medical trauma grows everyday. I'm not talking about an experience when you are an adult and scared of a procedure, I'm not talking about later childhood experiences. I'm talking very early early childhood experiences most don't go through at that age.
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Yeetus
I've had a traumatic experience before! Over the summer right when I got home from summer camp ) it was like 11: 30 and my dad chugged down half a mini bottle of ginger ale really quickly and then groaned and pressed his hands against the kitchen counter. My mama asked if he was ok and his response was I will be in a second then he passed out fell over the kitchen counter knocked dishes off the counter and then fell to the ground and busted his head open. Me and my mom saw the entire thing and both of us were screaming. She yelled at my to call 911 and that was 3rd time I had a panic attack. I mistyped 911 multiple times and then I finally got it right. By the time I called them my sister came in and took over for me. he had only been passed out for a few seconds and then became conscious again. It was awful. My dad was put in an ambulance that night and I couldn't fall asleep till 3 a. m. and that's just because I was exhausted after a week of summer camp. My sister's didn't go to bed until around 6 a. m. I can still remember it. All of it
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I've had a traumatic experience before! Over the summer right when I got home from summer camp ) it was like 11: 30 and my dad chugged down half a mini bottle of ginger ale really quickly and then groaned and pressed his hands against the kitchen counter. My mama asked if he was ok and his response was I will be in a second then he passed out fell over the kitchen counter knocked dishes off the counter and then fell to the ground and busted his head open. Me and my mom saw the entire thing and both of us were screaming. She yelled at my to call 911 and that was 3rd time I had a panic attack. I mistyped 911 multiple times and then I finally got it right. By the time I called them my sister came in and took over for me. he had only been passed out for a few seconds and then became conscious again. It was awful. My dad was put in an ambulance that night and I couldn't fall asleep till 3 a. m. and that's just because I was exhausted after a week of summer camp. My sister's didn't go to bed until around 6 a. m. I can still remember it. All of it
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Joel
REACH OUT. You can be taken to a hospital where they help you. by restraining you, stripping you naked and throwing you into an isolation cell, booty juice you, force you on to anti psychotics, take away your rights, starve you, dehydrate you, humiliate you, give you electric shock therapy 39 times. interrogate you, neglect, abandon and abuse you, take you to a mental health court and make you prove that you are normal to a bunch of strangers, give you a case manager to follow your every move, see a psychiatrist 1 day a week for 15 minutes, ignore your other medical needs, and let you out after months of abuse and you have been evicted for not paying rent, you have lost your job, your friends and family want nothing to do with you, and tell you that you deserved it, ot need to helpyourself, or you just want attention, and having gone through breast cancer treatment is no excuse. FML
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REACH OUT. You can be taken to a hospital where they help you. by restraining you, stripping you naked and throwing you into an isolation cell, booty juice you, force you on to anti psychotics, take away your rights, starve you, dehydrate you, humiliate you, give you electric shock therapy 39 times. interrogate you, neglect, abandon and abuse you, take you to a mental health court and make you prove that you are normal to a bunch of strangers, give you a case manager to follow your every move, see a psychiatrist 1 day a week for 15 minutes, ignore your other medical needs, and let you out after months of abuse and you have been evicted for not paying rent, you have lost your job, your friends and family want nothing to do with you, and tell you that you deserved it, ot need to helpyourself, or you just want attention, and having gone through breast cancer treatment is no excuse. FML
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Mr.
Even to this day my parents constantly talk about how i was such a bad kid. but it doesn't make any sense. i let them take their anger out on me and i just absorbed it. i hate myself a lot and i never really knew why. they would often neglect me to the door all night and then go to bed like i didn't exist. i would ask for a hug when i was in trouble and i always got turned down. i needed that hug to confirm they didn't hate me since their words were hollow. we recently went through old family photos and videos. One thing was constant, i was in trouble in some way in every single one. there is no possible conceptual way i was bad every single day my entire life up til 5 years ago. my skin is so tough from all the corporal punishment its hard to feel pain. which you'd think is a good thing. but it resulted in me being completely numb to all feelings. We as humans need to feel.
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Even to this day my parents constantly talk about how i was such a bad kid. but it doesn't make any sense. i let them take their anger out on me and i just absorbed it. i hate myself a lot and i never really knew why. they would often neglect me to the door all night and then go to bed like i didn't exist. i would ask for a hug when i was in trouble and i always got turned down. i needed that hug to confirm they didn't hate me since their words were hollow. we recently went through old family photos and videos. One thing was constant, i was in trouble in some way in every single one. there is no possible conceptual way i was bad every single day my entire life up til 5 years ago. my skin is so tough from all the corporal punishment its hard to feel pain. which you'd think is a good thing. but it resulted in me being completely numb to all feelings. We as humans need to feel.
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D4rkDream
YES YES YES. unhealed trauma CHECK!
200% control CHECK!
problem is I met her 1 week ago and shit is getting rockyyyyy
well loosing a brother at a very young age + a very close cousin at a very important time in life. years later the one I thought was the love of my life met a guy and got pregnant the same night she met him tends to be the last nail in the coffin I guess.
I guess that's why I don't dream anymore no wishes just nightmares and nothingness I guess.
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YES YES YES. unhealed trauma CHECK!
200% control CHECK!
problem is I met her 1 week ago and shit is getting rockyyyyy
well loosing a brother at a very young age + a very close cousin at a very important time in life. years later the one I thought was the love of my life met a guy and got pregnant the same night she met him tends to be the last nail in the coffin I guess.
I guess that's why I don't dream anymore no wishes just nightmares and nothingness I guess.
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MikeAnn193
That animated sequence starting at 2: 30 made me feel instantly sad and compassionate toward the person trying to show/receive love, and being ignored. I actually said aww outloud. I wonder if it says something about me and some similar trauma _I've_ experienced. The gesture of sharing was pure, innocent and kind, and the giver seemed to trust that it would be well-received, making the disappointment so heartfelt. Kudos to Evelvaii's animation for bringing that out of me.
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That animated sequence starting at 2: 30 made me feel instantly sad and compassionate toward the person trying to show/receive love, and being ignored. I actually said aww outloud. I wonder if it says something about me and some similar trauma _I've_ experienced. The gesture of sharing was pure, innocent and kind, and the giver seemed to trust that it would be well-received, making the disappointment so heartfelt. Kudos to Evelvaii's animation for bringing that out of me.
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Wendy
In 3rd grade I took an IQ test. I knew that if I scored high enough I would qualify to go to a private school in New York, and I deliberately answered some questions in ways I knew I should not because I didn't want my family to send me away. I scored 2 points short of MENSA level, and got to stay in New Mexico. At that age I had little or no unresolved trauma so my fear of success was on a different level; in retrospect, I'm grateful that life turned out as it did.
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In 3rd grade I took an IQ test. I knew that if I scored high enough I would qualify to go to a private school in New York, and I deliberately answered some questions in ways I knew I should not because I didn't want my family to send me away. I scored 2 points short of MENSA level, and got to stay in New Mexico. At that age I had little or no unresolved trauma so my fear of success was on a different level; in retrospect, I'm grateful that life turned out as it did.
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Milkate
You have trouble asking for help
What if my actual problem is that no one is taking me seriously. I'm kind of trying to be my own psychotherapist sometimes, read books, make research on my own. meditate and think. Think a lot. Too much. I have nobody who can actually stay grounded and just listen. You're kind of acting like a victim I don't understand what you're trying to say hmm 'kay? I don't have the money for therapy. so what am I supposed to do? .-.
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You have trouble asking for help
What if my actual problem is that no one is taking me seriously. I'm kind of trying to be my own psychotherapist sometimes, read books, make research on my own. meditate and think. Think a lot. Too much. I have nobody who can actually stay grounded and just listen. You're kind of acting like a victim I don't understand what you're trying to say hmm 'kay? I don't have the money for therapy. so what am I supposed to do? .-.
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Eren
i have friends my age but the only person who's been there for me before and after losing my father she's one of my mom's friends but she's more like family but every time i tried to act as if shit was okay shes like you better come over here give me a hug before i come over there and kick your ass dad passed away when i was 10 im almost seventeen now ive tried to kill myself dozens of times and all i need to say is it will get better trust me
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i have friends my age but the only person who's been there for me before and after losing my father she's one of my mom's friends but she's more like family but every time i tried to act as if shit was okay shes like you better come over here give me a hug before i come over there and kick your ass dad passed away when i was 10 im almost seventeen now ive tried to kill myself dozens of times and all i need to say is it will get better trust me
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Some
I think my friend might have untreated trauma, i wish i could help but we live kilometres away from each other. She surely neglect my help or suggestion to go to a Therapist, probably someone is blocking her or she doesnt want to. I wish i could help her, it pains me seeing a friend suffer like this. Do you guys have any suggestions on what should i do?
PS: Sorry if my english is bad. Its not my main language
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I think my friend might have untreated trauma, i wish i could help but we live kilometres away from each other. She surely neglect my help or suggestion to go to a Therapist, probably someone is blocking her or she doesnt want to. I wish i could help her, it pains me seeing a friend suffer like this. Do you guys have any suggestions on what should i do?
PS: Sorry if my english is bad. Its not my main language
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melissa
I have a strong fear of failure
What if they will not like me?
What if everyone hates me?
Am i gonna be stuck having rules being force too.
Im scared to ask for help.
What if they rejected me?
Am i gonna fail.
Will they will forget me.
Am i useless?
I cant help.
They will abandon me
Am i just dramatic.
I am loved. right?
I lose someone.
What do i do.
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I have a strong fear of failure
What if they will not like me?
What if everyone hates me?
Am i gonna be stuck having rules being force too.
Im scared to ask for help.
What if they rejected me?
Am i gonna fail.
Will they will forget me.
Am i useless?
I cant help.
They will abandon me
Am i just dramatic.
I am loved. right?
I lose someone.
What do i do.
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hi
I remember when I was 7 my mom tried to cut my hand off and disown me. It was my fault, I stole $20 from her purse for a reason I no longer remember. I was trying to put it back when she caught me and thought I was taking it out but the fact that she was so quick to make that decision made me lose a lot if not all trust in her. I didnt think much of it until I saw this video though.
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I remember when I was 7 my mom tried to cut my hand off and disown me. It was my fault, I stole $20 from her purse for a reason I no longer remember. I was trying to put it back when she caught me and thought I was taking it out but the fact that she was so quick to make that decision made me lose a lot if not all trust in her. I didnt think much of it until I saw this video though.
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Betty
I'm not gonna lie, this made me cry because all those signs are what I experienced and still do to this day and I try to ignore them thinking that nothing's wrong. It really does hurt. I really do hope no one else is experiencing unhealed trauma, it's hell, but if you are don't worry you will be healed and the ones who love you will always be there to help you.
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I'm not gonna lie, this made me cry because all those signs are what I experienced and still do to this day and I try to ignore them thinking that nothing's wrong. It really does hurt. I really do hope no one else is experiencing unhealed trauma, it's hell, but if you are don't worry you will be healed and the ones who love you will always be there to help you.
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Lydia
When I was a toddler, I got in trouble for breaking a new pair of sunglasses. My cousin yelled at me, my mom yelled at her, they yelled at each other. I still remember running to my room and hiding under my blanket. When things calmed down, I hid behind the doorway as I saw two police officers in the living room. To this day, I have a fear of being yelled at.
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When I was a toddler, I got in trouble for breaking a new pair of sunglasses. My cousin yelled at me, my mom yelled at her, they yelled at each other. I still remember running to my room and hiding under my blanket. When things calmed down, I hid behind the doorway as I saw two police officers in the living room. To this day, I have a fear of being yelled at.
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Eevee
Perfectionism and insecurity? I did have my dad never tell me anything bad about him as a kid and ad his kid the offspring must be perfect too in my mind, I still have this problem today but I don't know if it can be considered trauma just something that's always seemed natural to me. I'd this trauma can someone tell me? I don't think so
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Perfectionism and insecurity? I did have my dad never tell me anything bad about him as a kid and ad his kid the offspring must be perfect too in my mind, I still have this problem today but I don't know if it can be considered trauma just something that's always seemed natural to me. I'd this trauma can someone tell me? I don't think so
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MasicBemester
how many of them are considered neurodivergent traits? I've heard that society doesn't create untraumatized autistics and I already see a few of those traits that are dismissed as just signs of autism.
Needs plan for everything: Autism.
Difficulty concentrating: ADHD (what did you expect, Sportaflop)
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how many of them are considered neurodivergent traits? I've heard that society doesn't create untraumatized autistics and I already see a few of those traits that are dismissed as just signs of autism.
Needs plan for everything: Autism.
Difficulty concentrating: ADHD (what did you expect, Sportaflop)
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The
i relate to a few. i can never remember things, mostly theyre important things and i get scolded for it. i dont remember 7 years of my childhood, but i remember being threatened to be hit by i think my grandmother and father. they dont do it anymore but my brothers do sometimes hurt me. i wont trauma dump too much: )
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i relate to a few. i can never remember things, mostly theyre important things and i get scolded for it. i dont remember 7 years of my childhood, but i remember being threatened to be hit by i think my grandmother and father. they dont do it anymore but my brothers do sometimes hurt me. i wont trauma dump too much: )
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gjb211
A book that really helped me deal with my trauma is called, How to stubbornly refuse to make yourself miserable about Anything, by Albert Ellis. It gives you the tools to deal with any negative situations or thoughts. I've used the tools in it for over 30 years and highly recommend it.
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A book that really helped me deal with my trauma is called, How to stubbornly refuse to make yourself miserable about Anything, by Albert Ellis. It gives you the tools to deal with any negative situations or thoughts. I've used the tools in it for over 30 years and highly recommend it.
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Trippywolfgamer28
I actually suffer with ptsd I only know one thing so far of it. Im religious but suffer religious trauma. My other trauma was suppressed by my brain and I struggle with all of these things in the list it really feels bad and I feel like I cant do anything to do about it
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I actually suffer with ptsd I only know one thing so far of it. Im religious but suffer religious trauma. My other trauma was suppressed by my brain and I struggle with all of these things in the list it really feels bad and I feel like I cant do anything to do about it
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Allison
I am doing this now and it started way back when I was a little girl. thought it was normal until a narcissist came into my life and I almost lost myself. he abused me and I found resources via the police to help me deal with this narcissist. my self esteem hit an all time low
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I am doing this now and it started way back when I was a little girl. thought it was normal until a narcissist came into my life and I almost lost myself. he abused me and I found resources via the police to help me deal with this narcissist. my self esteem hit an all time low
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Haley
After watching this video, I realized I had all of these, but I have no idea what trauma I might have gone through. I grew up in a healthy family setting, had good friends, and had people who supported me, but I still struggle with so much stuff and I have no good excuse for it
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After watching this video, I realized I had all of these, but I have no idea what trauma I might have gone through. I grew up in a healthy family setting, had good friends, and had people who supported me, but I still struggle with so much stuff and I have no good excuse for it
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PG
Damn. Everything fits now. I thought i was the only one who feels these feelings. I never thought they had an explanation. never thought they were real. But they are. I dont know if it helps me more that i know what they are or scare me more that this shit is real.
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Damn. Everything fits now. I thought i was the only one who feels these feelings. I never thought they had an explanation. never thought they were real. But they are. I dont know if it helps me more that i know what they are or scare me more that this shit is real.
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Sxltine
I have 8 out of 9 of these symptoms (excluding planning for everything) I'm pretty sure I was able to pinpoint my trauma a few days ago and I'm trying my best to take the steps needed to heal, but seeing all of these listed out was a big eye opener!
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I have 8 out of 9 of these symptoms (excluding planning for everything) I'm pretty sure I was able to pinpoint my trauma a few days ago and I'm trying my best to take the steps needed to heal, but seeing all of these listed out was a big eye opener!
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Eddie
I didn't think I would have trauma in my life, guess I was in denial. It led me to hurting myself, losing appetite, feeling numb, lashing out on others, and a few days ago I had a suicide attempt.
Everything in this video was relatable.
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I didn't think I would have trauma in my life, guess I was in denial. It led me to hurting myself, losing appetite, feeling numb, lashing out on others, and a few days ago I had a suicide attempt.
Everything in this video was relatable.
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Sophia
I have all of these signs. I tried to do online therapy but I didnt feel comfortable enough to speak about it. Sometimes I feel like what Im dealing with is all in my head and other people have it worse and I start feeling guilty
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I have all of these signs. I tried to do online therapy but I didnt feel comfortable enough to speak about it. Sometimes I feel like what Im dealing with is all in my head and other people have it worse and I start feeling guilty
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