Signs They Like You, NOT Just Being Nice
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Date: 2023-08-20
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CounttlessYT
So, I need help as these videos don't really provide full proof of individual experience.
This girl at work I like. We are both on the introvert spectrum, apart from I am certainly more anti-social than she is, as I like keeping to myself a lot more. However, when we aren't spoken to, we don't seek conversation, unless I am trying to talk to her. When I do try and talk to her though, she sometimes gives short answers or avoids elaborating on it. I am aware we introverts aren't exactly the type to get into small talk often, but wouldn't they try to extend the conversation if they liked you? Even with a following question or something else entirely?
There are also these moments when we just look at each other for no reason. Its almost like we are communicating without speaking (from a distance mostly. When it comes to me just wanting to look her in the eyes and she returns it though, I quickly play it off to avoid unnecessary awkwardness (Usually making confusing situations like tf he doing. Sometimes this will be an eyeroll or stare in the opposite direction as if saying boreeeeeeeed.
There is also this moment when she got embarrassed by some comment a dude twice my age said (old dad energy stuff) about the two us. Apparently she turned red, to which I didnt witness this as I was distracted by what was just said as I was like oh ffs not again. Happens often. She left the room shortly after the comment, but she also had a job to do as well. So I am not quite sure what to think of it.
Last night though, there was just a lot of we look at each other but don't say anything type energy? While she was leaving last night, we both just stared at one another while she was about to be out of sight (turn the corner. Not sure why we stared at each other as that was probably the least awkward yet probably strangest stare I have done. Obviously before she turned the corner and I gave a quick wave and then a middle finger as if to say bye, fk off (I do this often with people. She returned the middle finger so it didn't seem she took it harshly: )
Lastly I want to mention that when I don't make my presence known, she sometimes just looks at me or points her body in my direction without me being in the conversation? For example I could be doing my job and she will be talking to someone else, then she would just turn around / glance in my direction (without me making any noise or really alerting my presence. Like why?
I would love to know if she likes me but I can't exactly pick on any signals that seem mixed signals.
If you could provide any enlightenment on this situation then please do, because god damn, I am not sure if she is giving signals that I am not picking up on, and also don't want to continue believing if I have a chance/ shot with her, when truly I don't.
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So, I need help as these videos don't really provide full proof of individual experience.
This girl at work I like. We are both on the introvert spectrum, apart from I am certainly more anti-social than she is, as I like keeping to myself a lot more. However, when we aren't spoken to, we don't seek conversation, unless I am trying to talk to her. When I do try and talk to her though, she sometimes gives short answers or avoids elaborating on it. I am aware we introverts aren't exactly the type to get into small talk often, but wouldn't they try to extend the conversation if they liked you? Even with a following question or something else entirely?
There are also these moments when we just look at each other for no reason. Its almost like we are communicating without speaking (from a distance mostly. When it comes to me just wanting to look her in the eyes and she returns it though, I quickly play it off to avoid unnecessary awkwardness (Usually making confusing situations like tf he doing. Sometimes this will be an eyeroll or stare in the opposite direction as if saying boreeeeeeeed.
There is also this moment when she got embarrassed by some comment a dude twice my age said (old dad energy stuff) about the two us. Apparently she turned red, to which I didnt witness this as I was distracted by what was just said as I was like oh ffs not again. Happens often. She left the room shortly after the comment, but she also had a job to do as well. So I am not quite sure what to think of it.
Last night though, there was just a lot of we look at each other but don't say anything type energy? While she was leaving last night, we both just stared at one another while she was about to be out of sight (turn the corner. Not sure why we stared at each other as that was probably the least awkward yet probably strangest stare I have done. Obviously before she turned the corner and I gave a quick wave and then a middle finger as if to say bye, fk off (I do this often with people. She returned the middle finger so it didn't seem she took it harshly: )
Lastly I want to mention that when I don't make my presence known, she sometimes just looks at me or points her body in my direction without me being in the conversation? For example I could be doing my job and she will be talking to someone else, then she would just turn around / glance in my direction (without me making any noise or really alerting my presence. Like why?
I would love to know if she likes me but I can't exactly pick on any signals that seem mixed signals.
If you could provide any enlightenment on this situation then please do, because god damn, I am not sure if she is giving signals that I am not picking up on, and also don't want to continue believing if I have a chance/ shot with her, when truly I don't.
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Cockstealer
Literally just watching these to get a headstart on studying humans and learning about psychology and sociology, and I now realise that I exhibit some of these signs towards my closest friends. One of my best friends is one guy I always try to sit next to because I can get a good laugh out of talking with him and we always make jokes about food the school we're in serves to students, because I ain't gonna lie, it looks rancid and chewed up, aside from the brownies and cookies they sell, which actually look good. Anyway, this comment is just kind of proof that if you think a guy or girl likes you and they show these signs it is not always true, it can be but sometimes it isn't. Don't 100% rely on these videos, but if you guys think someone likes you and they show really obvious signs, just make the move. Good luck to anyone who does use the advice in the video, and if it worked for you then well done!
Anyway, this is honestly funny how ironic this is considering that I exhibit atleast one sign to most of my best friends, some I even show a ton of signs, and I am literally aromantic. Imma just leave this comment for now, but if you guys have any things you'd like to ask about, single people always give the best relationship advice for some reason, so I'll try to help. Good luck to anyone who asks out someone they fancy, hopefully it goes well for you!
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Literally just watching these to get a headstart on studying humans and learning about psychology and sociology, and I now realise that I exhibit some of these signs towards my closest friends. One of my best friends is one guy I always try to sit next to because I can get a good laugh out of talking with him and we always make jokes about food the school we're in serves to students, because I ain't gonna lie, it looks rancid and chewed up, aside from the brownies and cookies they sell, which actually look good. Anyway, this comment is just kind of proof that if you think a guy or girl likes you and they show these signs it is not always true, it can be but sometimes it isn't. Don't 100% rely on these videos, but if you guys think someone likes you and they show really obvious signs, just make the move. Good luck to anyone who does use the advice in the video, and if it worked for you then well done!
Anyway, this is honestly funny how ironic this is considering that I exhibit atleast one sign to most of my best friends, some I even show a ton of signs, and I am literally aromantic. Imma just leave this comment for now, but if you guys have any things you'd like to ask about, single people always give the best relationship advice for some reason, so I'll try to help. Good luck to anyone who asks out someone they fancy, hopefully it goes well for you!
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Razz
ok, so I am in scouts(boy scouts) and the girls camped next to the boys for this trip and were in the same troop. it was fairly annoying but I have classes with some of them. There is this one guy who I'm going to call Timmy, now Timmy is friendly and outgoing like me, and into the same things as I am, we agree on most things, but like Idk if he likes me or even if I like him. We don't go to the same school but I have friends at his school I haven't told anyone bc I'm afraid of rejection. What do I do?
Edit: I know that most people really care about what people think of them but that's not me. So I don't typically care about rejection or if someone notices or likes me. One of his friends Dared him to say that he loves me. Now I have gotten jokes about that before and those people did it with a straight face and slowly, but he did it fast and flustered and looked down and this guy is very very confident, so that wasn't like him.
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ok, so I am in scouts(boy scouts) and the girls camped next to the boys for this trip and were in the same troop. it was fairly annoying but I have classes with some of them. There is this one guy who I'm going to call Timmy, now Timmy is friendly and outgoing like me, and into the same things as I am, we agree on most things, but like Idk if he likes me or even if I like him. We don't go to the same school but I have friends at his school I haven't told anyone bc I'm afraid of rejection. What do I do?
Edit: I know that most people really care about what people think of them but that's not me. So I don't typically care about rejection or if someone notices or likes me. One of his friends Dared him to say that he loves me. Now I have gotten jokes about that before and those people did it with a straight face and slowly, but he did it fast and flustered and looked down and this guy is very very confident, so that wasn't like him.
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Spark
I dont know if anyone noticed but in the different animations and in a lot of videos there will be people from the dsmp in the animations like
0: 30 on the mug is Georgnotfounds sunglasses and bellow that is the smile on Dreams mask
1: 25 in the top left corner in Philzas hat on the right side of the room is Georgenotfounds sunglasses, Dreams mask, a diamond sword, and a potato and a golden crown for Technoblades potato wars series
1: 49 the person on the right is wearing a Ranboo hoodie
2: 14 in the top row is Tommyinit in the 3rd is Tubbo
2: 30 Philza in the green and white stringed hat
2: 50 Technoblades picture on the phone also Technoblade never dies!
3: 16 the person on the left is wearing a Philza hoodie and the person on the right is wearing a Ranboo hoodie
3: 30 every box with an animation looks like an open tab like in Wilbur Soots videos and twitch streams
I hope I didnt miss any!
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I dont know if anyone noticed but in the different animations and in a lot of videos there will be people from the dsmp in the animations like
0: 30 on the mug is Georgnotfounds sunglasses and bellow that is the smile on Dreams mask
1: 25 in the top left corner in Philzas hat on the right side of the room is Georgenotfounds sunglasses, Dreams mask, a diamond sword, and a potato and a golden crown for Technoblades potato wars series
1: 49 the person on the right is wearing a Ranboo hoodie
2: 14 in the top row is Tommyinit in the 3rd is Tubbo
2: 30 Philza in the green and white stringed hat
2: 50 Technoblades picture on the phone also Technoblade never dies!
3: 16 the person on the left is wearing a Philza hoodie and the person on the right is wearing a Ranboo hoodie
3: 30 every box with an animation looks like an open tab like in Wilbur Soots videos and twitch streams
I hope I didnt miss any!
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mona
Those videos are convincing me she is not actually into me but she do half of those things and half not. like she treats me just like her closest female friends, but i am the only male she treats like that. I just think she could be either not intrested or just not ready and idk what to di cuz im not searching for someone to live my life with as before her i was not in live for a good while, but she is such a gorgeous person i cant let that slide
I think if i expose my feelings i either might get frienzoned or just make he paniking so im just going to treat her the best i can and see what our future plans will lead us
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Those videos are convincing me she is not actually into me but she do half of those things and half not. like she treats me just like her closest female friends, but i am the only male she treats like that. I just think she could be either not intrested or just not ready and idk what to di cuz im not searching for someone to live my life with as before her i was not in live for a good while, but she is such a gorgeous person i cant let that slide
I think if i expose my feelings i either might get frienzoned or just make he paniking so im just going to treat her the best i can and see what our future plans will lead us
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Roman
it's like the exact opposite damn
1 hug for the last 3 months or so (my initiative as well)
i remember a lot about them, they only remember a little
the same appearance whether i am around or i'm not
it's only me trying to get near them'
they never stare at me
always me chasing the daily small talk, always me keeping the convo alive, always me asking questions, etc.
barely texts me first (like 3 times in the same 3 months) and doesn't tend to text for long as well
ig it's gonna be an L, idek at this point whether i should go for it or just leave it
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it's like the exact opposite damn
1 hug for the last 3 months or so (my initiative as well)
i remember a lot about them, they only remember a little
the same appearance whether i am around or i'm not
it's only me trying to get near them'
they never stare at me
always me chasing the daily small talk, always me keeping the convo alive, always me asking questions, etc.
barely texts me first (like 3 times in the same 3 months) and doesn't tend to text for long as well
ig it's gonna be an L, idek at this point whether i should go for it or just leave it
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Suckonthis
Theres this girl in my theater class who; even from across the auditorium) will be looking at me and when she realizes that I know that Im looking at her shell quickly look away and she also is really friendly and every time I see her in the hallways shes always like omg heyyyy -my name- and she always puts me in her group when were doing a group project but on the other hand if I try to talk to her sometimes shell just flat out ignore me and act like Im not even there so I dont know if shes just a very outgoing person or shes actually into me
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Theres this girl in my theater class who; even from across the auditorium) will be looking at me and when she realizes that I know that Im looking at her shell quickly look away and she also is really friendly and every time I see her in the hallways shes always like omg heyyyy -my name- and she always puts me in her group when were doing a group project but on the other hand if I try to talk to her sometimes shell just flat out ignore me and act like Im not even there so I dont know if shes just a very outgoing person or shes actually into me
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Emma
My crush at uni slows down his pace for me, he also tries to catch me after class. He stares at me, blushes at me, thinks I'm funny (I've made him laugh, he makes me laugh and smile A LOT, he makes eye contact, he changes his routine for me (walked a way he normally doesn't but I do. He holds doors for me, compliments me, he asked me if I'm single, he's asked about my interests, I never see him on his phone with me, he preens A LOT when I'm in the room, he steals glances at me. I don't know if he likes me or not.
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My crush at uni slows down his pace for me, he also tries to catch me after class. He stares at me, blushes at me, thinks I'm funny (I've made him laugh, he makes me laugh and smile A LOT, he makes eye contact, he changes his routine for me (walked a way he normally doesn't but I do. He holds doors for me, compliments me, he asked me if I'm single, he's asked about my interests, I never see him on his phone with me, he preens A LOT when I'm in the room, he steals glances at me. I don't know if he likes me or not.
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Dony
I have experienced all except for #1. But unfortunately, because of what he did to me, l have distanced myself from him and had never forgiven him which I know is too harsh. But to be fair he made some moves to win me back or make peace but I just can't make myself from forgiving him. Every time I saw him it brings me back to the thing he did. And it made my blood boils. And now, watching this, it made me think, that if we hadn't fought perhaps we might be in a relationship or he made a move.
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I have experienced all except for #1. But unfortunately, because of what he did to me, l have distanced myself from him and had never forgiven him which I know is too harsh. But to be fair he made some moves to win me back or make peace but I just can't make myself from forgiving him. Every time I saw him it brings me back to the thing he did. And it made my blood boils. And now, watching this, it made me think, that if we hadn't fought perhaps we might be in a relationship or he made a move.
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TheJaguar1983
Funny thing: there's a woman I like, but I've almost done the opposite of a couple of these. Like, I avoided eye contact because I was too shy. Also, I was playing with my phone while talking with her, but it was because I had a video I was hoping to show her if I could steer the conversation that way. The other thing is that she's usually the only woman at our card game tournaments, so I'm aware that she's there just to play games and not to get hit on, so I hold back.
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Funny thing: there's a woman I like, but I've almost done the opposite of a couple of these. Like, I avoided eye contact because I was too shy. Also, I was playing with my phone while talking with her, but it was because I had a video I was hoping to show her if I could steer the conversation that way. The other thing is that she's usually the only woman at our card game tournaments, so I'm aware that she's there just to play games and not to get hit on, so I hold back.
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Kathryn
My crush and i were hanging out at our school dance with a few close friends, we all got along well and had a good time, I remember I was sitting in the cafeteria outside because my ears were ringing frome the music so I stepped outside for a brake, and out of nowhere he comes up behind me and gives me his jacket, I sadly could not keep it because it's his brother's jacket but I was cuddling it any chance I got when he wasn't looking, and he said I can were it again on monday
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My crush and i were hanging out at our school dance with a few close friends, we all got along well and had a good time, I remember I was sitting in the cafeteria outside because my ears were ringing frome the music so I stepped outside for a brake, and out of nowhere he comes up behind me and gives me his jacket, I sadly could not keep it because it's his brother's jacket but I was cuddling it any chance I got when he wasn't looking, and he said I can were it again on monday
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Autre
Well, one more video, which accurately defines, that I have a crush on. my crush, which I'm perfectly aware of, anyway.
And so, I'm aware of it, he's aware of it, all cards are open, all boundaries are set, and obviously nothing happens and no hopes can exist.
I believe, such videos are helpful to me in a way, although I'm not exactly sure how. But thank you for your work, anyway. Your animations are great and jokes are funny. Way to go!
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Well, one more video, which accurately defines, that I have a crush on. my crush, which I'm perfectly aware of, anyway.
And so, I'm aware of it, he's aware of it, all cards are open, all boundaries are set, and obviously nothing happens and no hopes can exist.
I believe, such videos are helpful to me in a way, although I'm not exactly sure how. But thank you for your work, anyway. Your animations are great and jokes are funny. Way to go!
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ellie
I'm still not sure, BUT. He usually cuts his hair very often to keep it short bc his parents tell him to. But recently he hasn't been cutting it, instead he tries to keep it in a certain length. Just, this:
Me- I love your hair! It's so pretty!
Him- It is? Thanks.
After that, he stopped cutting it so often and left it in the length I liked.
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I'm still not sure, BUT. He usually cuts his hair very often to keep it short bc his parents tell him to. But recently he hasn't been cutting it, instead he tries to keep it in a certain length. Just, this:
Me- I love your hair! It's so pretty!
Him- It is? Thanks.
After that, he stopped cutting it so often and left it in the length I liked.
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JoeStasi
Man I'm so confused but I think this video clarified that they don't like me xD
I watched your other video about signs they're just being friendly and none of them really stuck out to me. However, with this video the first three signs could be true but the rest are definitely not true - especially sign 5 xD
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Man I'm so confused but I think this video clarified that they don't like me xD
I watched your other video about signs they're just being friendly and none of them really stuck out to me. However, with this video the first three signs could be true but the rest are definitely not true - especially sign 5 xD
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Jodie
Can you do a video about how to discreetly hint that you like someone? Like how to let them know that youre interested so they can make a move (but not so obvious that it makes it awkward if they don feel the same)
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Can you do a video about how to discreetly hint that you like someone? Like how to let them know that youre interested so they can make a move (but not so obvious that it makes it awkward if they don feel the same)
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Sir
Definitely not me not having a crush on anyone realizing that no one has a crush on me and being disappointed that nobody does but at the same time not caring because I don't like anyone anyway
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Definitely not me not having a crush on anyone realizing that no one has a crush on me and being disappointed that nobody does but at the same time not caring because I don't like anyone anyway
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Gabriel4321
Well i only got the stare thing, plus there head turn when i ssd them, that would be surprising that she likes me, especially qince she is more confortable arouns other guys sooo
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Well i only got the stare thing, plus there head turn when i ssd them, that would be surprising that she likes me, especially qince she is more confortable arouns other guys sooo
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Silver
The part with always wearing nice clothes around you. I've lost some weight recently and now all of the clothes I have are too big. Everything I wear around my crush is super baggy.
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The part with always wearing nice clothes around you. I've lost some weight recently and now all of the clothes I have are too big. Everything I wear around my crush is super baggy.
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ziigiiziig
I think I may honestly be giving mixed signals, because I have debilitating anxiety and don't look my crush in the eyes when we talk. I get way too nervous to hold eye contact.
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I think I may honestly be giving mixed signals, because I have debilitating anxiety and don't look my crush in the eyes when we talk. I get way too nervous to hold eye contact.
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Ljubisa
Honestly, i have a crush that rarely talks to me, but sometimes does. I literally go R E D, So glad the air was cold so it hid my face when we walked home after school together.
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Honestly, i have a crush that rarely talks to me, but sometimes does. I literally go R E D, So glad the air was cold so it hid my face when we walked home after school together.
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Bubble
Why did this video seem to expose me. I literally got to sneak my first hug to my crush and they seemed to enjoy it now all I got to do is finally have a working convo.
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Why did this video seem to expose me. I literally got to sneak my first hug to my crush and they seemed to enjoy it now all I got to do is finally have a working convo.
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Mina
I have a crush and I watch your videos because I don't know how I know if my crush likes me as a friend or as a crush. thanks your videos are helpful. :)
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I have a crush and I watch your videos because I don't know how I know if my crush likes me as a friend or as a crush. thanks your videos are helpful. :)
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wandering
when you're the only person you've ever seen them hug our of their large social circle, and they give you big and sometimes multiple goodbye hugs
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when you're the only person you've ever seen them hug our of their large social circle, and they give you big and sometimes multiple goodbye hugs
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Frogs
0: 35 I never get hugs from them but all my friends do and I ma closer to them than they are, could they just be shy to hug me because they like me?
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0: 35 I never get hugs from them but all my friends do and I ma closer to them than they are, could they just be shy to hug me because they like me?
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p4per. cr4ne
Im genuinely so bad at not flirting that I have to remind myself to tone it down around my crush just in case they dont like me back
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Im genuinely so bad at not flirting that I have to remind myself to tone it down around my crush just in case they dont like me back
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