6 Tips to Make Others Like You IMMEDIATELY
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Okay so, I have a female friend who used to talk with me while playing games about 2 times a week. I really enjoyed hearing her telling about herself to me, I cherished every single second of that moment. It made me feel special and trustworthy for knowing about her personal life. But for some reason, when I kinda like ask a little bit of continuation of her story, she was like cut it off out of nowhere. I'll give you an example, like Yeah the party was fun, I was so happy, I replied Glad that you enjoyed it. After a few seconds later I tried to bring up the topic again and the way she replied was unexpected, totally different from what I expected. It does sounds like she just want to tell me, and after that she'll just keep quiet. I don't know. And now she stopped telling me about her stuff, and I even noticed that she sometimes avoid any long conversation with me. I don't really know if I did anything wrong, eventually I gave up on trying to get close to her since I felt like i wasn't appreciated by her. Well I'm not asking to be treated special either. haih. sorry if it's too personal, thank you for reading. really appreciate your time
Okay so I think that i need to add a little bit more of the story, it kinda looks unfinished.
A few days ago I celebrated her birthday, I made a very special gift that has her name on it. She was really shocked and happy after I showed it to her. At that night she was really adorable, that was the first time she thank me for what i have done to her. Man u know what, I was so happy that i thought I'll definitely marry this girl, she's just too precious lmao how naive of me lol. But a few day passed, she kinda like. changed? Idk. To put it short, every time we made an unforgettable memories together, like chatting till late night, celebrate her birthday, playing games and laughing like there's no tomorrow, the more it turned worsts. I have absolutely no idea what is this. It's like every time we get closer to each other, the further she went. She avoided me more than usual, and plus just two days ago she said to me You think I'm playing games early in this morning to play with you? Don't even joke about that. Even if it's true, she doesn't really have to say that tho '-'. I don't know what I'm typing anymore lol, I'm sorry if this comment is disturbing since I have no place to talk about this. Thanks for the like and comments too, really really really appreciate you guys. That's all for now, thank you.
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Okay so, I have a female friend who used to talk with me while playing games about 2 times a week. I really enjoyed hearing her telling about herself to me, I cherished every single second of that moment. It made me feel special and trustworthy for knowing about her personal life. But for some reason, when I kinda like ask a little bit of continuation of her story, she was like cut it off out of nowhere. I'll give you an example, like Yeah the party was fun, I was so happy, I replied Glad that you enjoyed it. After a few seconds later I tried to bring up the topic again and the way she replied was unexpected, totally different from what I expected. It does sounds like she just want to tell me, and after that she'll just keep quiet. I don't know. And now she stopped telling me about her stuff, and I even noticed that she sometimes avoid any long conversation with me. I don't really know if I did anything wrong, eventually I gave up on trying to get close to her since I felt like i wasn't appreciated by her. Well I'm not asking to be treated special either. haih. sorry if it's too personal, thank you for reading. really appreciate your time
Okay so I think that i need to add a little bit more of the story, it kinda looks unfinished.
A few days ago I celebrated her birthday, I made a very special gift that has her name on it. She was really shocked and happy after I showed it to her. At that night she was really adorable, that was the first time she thank me for what i have done to her. Man u know what, I was so happy that i thought I'll definitely marry this girl, she's just too precious lmao how naive of me lol. But a few day passed, she kinda like. changed? Idk. To put it short, every time we made an unforgettable memories together, like chatting till late night, celebrate her birthday, playing games and laughing like there's no tomorrow, the more it turned worsts. I have absolutely no idea what is this. It's like every time we get closer to each other, the further she went. She avoided me more than usual, and plus just two days ago she said to me You think I'm playing games early in this morning to play with you? Don't even joke about that. Even if it's true, she doesn't really have to say that tho '-'. I don't know what I'm typing anymore lol, I'm sorry if this comment is disturbing since I have no place to talk about this. Thanks for the like and comments too, really really really appreciate you guys. That's all for now, thank you.
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joker
But what if people don't show interest for me? Well.
In my whole life, I was a shy but ambivert person, always trying to make new friends. But after changing of school many times (I changed 3/4 times during my life, I could NEVER get a friend. People didn't seem to be interested to have a friendship with me, even if I tried having conversations with them everyday, and give them some candys. It was never enough, and if I stopped trying, they would never care. It was like. I never existed in their lifes, that I never tried to create a bond with them.
And that still goes for today, I'm in High school, with 0 friends. Even though I do everything to be friends with everyone, nobody sees me more than a classmate.
This is just. Tiring. If I wasn't on Amino, I would be feeling way more lonely than I already am. I'm tired of trying, tired of my classmates, everything. And I don't want to go to another school, since this one is the best on my City, and it was very hard to my mom to get me there.
English is not my first language, sorry if there are any mistakes.
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But what if people don't show interest for me? Well.
In my whole life, I was a shy but ambivert person, always trying to make new friends. But after changing of school many times (I changed 3/4 times during my life, I could NEVER get a friend. People didn't seem to be interested to have a friendship with me, even if I tried having conversations with them everyday, and give them some candys. It was never enough, and if I stopped trying, they would never care. It was like. I never existed in their lifes, that I never tried to create a bond with them.
And that still goes for today, I'm in High school, with 0 friends. Even though I do everything to be friends with everyone, nobody sees me more than a classmate.
This is just. Tiring. If I wasn't on Amino, I would be feeling way more lonely than I already am. I'm tired of trying, tired of my classmates, everything. And I don't want to go to another school, since this one is the best on my City, and it was very hard to my mom to get me there.
English is not my first language, sorry if there are any mistakes.
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HouseFromSmartCity
To be interesting, be interested.
Also, be careful with taking it too far in trying to be likable. One of the biggest lessons Ive ever learned in life was knowing the difference between being liked and being respected. I went to 10 different schools so I constantly was put in positions where I needed to be liked quickly.
Being liked yet not respected is only good for the short-term and to avoid negative attention / situations.
That said, the fastest ways to win favor with people are to feign intelligence and throw in some tasteful self-depreciation. People make the mistake of overdoing it on presenting the perfect version of themselves and too perfect makes people feel uncomfortable + draws resentment. Best way to lower the defenses of someone you want to be in good favor with is to let them think theyre above you.
-Mr. SmartCity
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To be interesting, be interested.
Also, be careful with taking it too far in trying to be likable. One of the biggest lessons Ive ever learned in life was knowing the difference between being liked and being respected. I went to 10 different schools so I constantly was put in positions where I needed to be liked quickly.
Being liked yet not respected is only good for the short-term and to avoid negative attention / situations.
That said, the fastest ways to win favor with people are to feign intelligence and throw in some tasteful self-depreciation. People make the mistake of overdoing it on presenting the perfect version of themselves and too perfect makes people feel uncomfortable + draws resentment. Best way to lower the defenses of someone you want to be in good favor with is to let them think theyre above you.
-Mr. SmartCity
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Isaiah
I've had trouble with trying to get people to like me because of being different but what helped me was ask questions and listen to them by having interest in the person. I also try to get the person to be about them in the conversation than me so It can be about the both of us or a group of people. Complimenting is giving a reward to someone who will feel better about themselves so they feel comfortable around us. I rather speak for the voiceless so they would feel they matter.
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I've had trouble with trying to get people to like me because of being different but what helped me was ask questions and listen to them by having interest in the person. I also try to get the person to be about them in the conversation than me so It can be about the both of us or a group of people. Complimenting is giving a reward to someone who will feel better about themselves so they feel comfortable around us. I rather speak for the voiceless so they would feel they matter.
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Phoenix
#1 Be sincere.
#2 Don't try too hard.
#3 Be careful who you befriend.
#4 Never lend out your vehicle.
#5 Never let your guard down.
#6 They don't have to meet your bf.
#7 Pay attention. Actions vs Words.
#8 Never share any intimate details.
#9 Never disclose financial details.
#10 It's not important for everyone
to like you. And not everyone will.
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#1 Be sincere.
#2 Don't try too hard.
#3 Be careful who you befriend.
#4 Never lend out your vehicle.
#5 Never let your guard down.
#6 They don't have to meet your bf.
#7 Pay attention. Actions vs Words.
#8 Never share any intimate details.
#9 Never disclose financial details.
#10 It's not important for everyone
to like you. And not everyone will.
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Alex
You 'want' people to like you. you 'hope' people will like you. But to 'make' someone like you, is really self-centered. Act naturally, be yourself, show benevolence, if true. and don't worry or try to put on some song and dance to 'make' people like you, that's just ego masturbation. You'll attract people who'll always expect you to dance for them, you'll be living a lie.
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You 'want' people to like you. you 'hope' people will like you. But to 'make' someone like you, is really self-centered. Act naturally, be yourself, show benevolence, if true. and don't worry or try to put on some song and dance to 'make' people like you, that's just ego masturbation. You'll attract people who'll always expect you to dance for them, you'll be living a lie.
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Selene
I love we have to work on ourselves to please other people because let's be honest people like myself are never given any kindness in return.
At my school I try so hard to please others and be kind, but no one ever kind to me back. Only just the staff members not any of my peers.
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I love we have to work on ourselves to please other people because let's be honest people like myself are never given any kindness in return.
At my school I try so hard to please others and be kind, but no one ever kind to me back. Only just the staff members not any of my peers.
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rovo9696
I think these tips are not even helpfull, but harmfull. In my opinion its just better to be yourself, than force yourself to make others to like you. Not only its kinda fake and manipulative, but why should i care if they like me- especially my social mask.
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I think these tips are not even helpfull, but harmfull. In my opinion its just better to be yourself, than force yourself to make others to like you. Not only its kinda fake and manipulative, but why should i care if they like me- especially my social mask.
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photographyguru
Points of videos: Ask more questions in conversation. Be trustworthy. Give genuine compliments. Let them know you EXIST & be around them often. Befriend their friends. Let them know you like to be around them. What tips will you use?
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Points of videos: Ask more questions in conversation. Be trustworthy. Give genuine compliments. Let them know you EXIST & be around them often. Befriend their friends. Let them know you like to be around them. What tips will you use?
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bye
I do all of that so i have many friends. kinda. but im a person who never jokes so they want to stay with me because im kind but wouldt hangout with me ivi. + because i do that what is in the vidio, they are the ones that talk the hole time.
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I do all of that so i have many friends. kinda. but im a person who never jokes so they want to stay with me because im kind but wouldt hangout with me ivi. + because i do that what is in the vidio, they are the ones that talk the hole time.
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txrqoiise_
Thank for making this video I really need does advice! I think it would really help! I'm kinda having trouble making people like me but now I'm have confidence to talk to them thank you so much for making my day!
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Thank for making this video I really need does advice! I think it would really help! I'm kinda having trouble making people like me but now I'm have confidence to talk to them thank you so much for making my day!
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raquel
befriend their friends. but her friends are so much cooler and funnier than i am + i literally have no idea how to approach them when i dont get 99% of their convos (they're so random and weird)
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befriend their friends. but her friends are so much cooler and funnier than i am + i literally have no idea how to approach them when i dont get 99% of their convos (they're so random and weird)
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Stephanie
I am over 50 and I have found that if you are a genuine, good person and you just do your thing, people will eventually get to know you. Dont sweat it and know that your light will shine.
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I am over 50 and I have found that if you are a genuine, good person and you just do your thing, people will eventually get to know you. Dont sweat it and know that your light will shine.
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BullShark
Sadly, you could have all six of these qualities going for you, but still, there's a very likely chance the other person will still not like you or see you for who or what you really are
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Sadly, you could have all six of these qualities going for you, but still, there's a very likely chance the other person will still not like you or see you for who or what you really are
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BmwBlastz
I have really rapid mood swings. I can go from feeling miserable to happy to miserable again within the span of a few hours. Do you have an explanation?
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I have really rapid mood swings. I can go from feeling miserable to happy to miserable again within the span of a few hours. Do you have an explanation?
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Theo
Also make sure to compliment other people when they're not around, people who see you compliment other will subconsciously think of you as a better person
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Also make sure to compliment other people when they're not around, people who see you compliment other will subconsciously think of you as a better person
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Olivia
i do all these things naturaly, honestly it comes as a surprise when people i meet see me as nice or a good friend, because its just how ive always been
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i do all these things naturaly, honestly it comes as a surprise when people i meet see me as nice or a good friend, because its just how ive always been
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Ives
Food For Thought: If you just set out to be liked, you would be prepared to compromise on anything at any time, and you would achieve nothing.
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Food For Thought: If you just set out to be liked, you would be prepared to compromise on anything at any time, and you would achieve nothing.
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ThE_bOtAtRoN
at this point I feel like letting my love life work out itself, I'm mostly watching these videos for knowledge and entertainment
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at this point I feel like letting my love life work out itself, I'm mostly watching these videos for knowledge and entertainment
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ALX
the problem is, its hard for me to go up to people and start convo because im scared they'll think uhhh why is she coming up to me?
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the problem is, its hard for me to go up to people and start convo because im scared they'll think uhhh why is she coming up to me?
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Viicell
I already do all that stuff without knowing it is good, I thought it would be some way annoying or awkward to people
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I already do all that stuff without knowing it is good, I thought it would be some way annoying or awkward to people
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SHL24YW
Only do this to person you actually like. You don't want to be giving wrong signals to person you don't even like.
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Only do this to person you actually like. You don't want to be giving wrong signals to person you don't even like.
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Claudia
Best recomendation: put yourself together, found yourself, be in synchrony with yourself and you'll be interesting
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Best recomendation: put yourself together, found yourself, be in synchrony with yourself and you'll be interesting
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Max
I subbed to phyc2go before she had 1 million subs and I thought she was my big secret. Now everyone knows the tips
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I subbed to phyc2go before she had 1 million subs and I thought she was my big secret. Now everyone knows the tips
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Maria
Dont forget Sometimes its not about you if some people dont give u the love you deserve
Dont be sad for this
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Dont forget Sometimes its not about you if some people dont give u the love you deserve
Dont be sad for this
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