6 Signs of Emotional Abuse and Neglect
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Date: 2023-08-20
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EJM3323
My mom was a victim of physical and mental abuse which she then pushed onto me
When my mom sees that I'm upset she finds thing that would make me even more upset even unintentionally
My grandpa used to tell my mom to stop when she herself was upset and I remember when I was going through a depressed state and we had just sold our house and we were staying at my grandparents house and my grandpa had kicked us out because he didn't want us to move so we were staying at a hotel and I had no clothes, had not showered, shaken up, and going through a depression wave. I was sitting on the floor crying and my mom to stop crying and that I was fine.
My family (grandpa, aunts uncles, great grandma etc) are extremely manipulative, a few days before our move my uncle tried telling me that what my mom was doing was wrong (moving away, which I think is the best thing for us at the moment) and that he thought my mom was crazy ( at the time this was at my grandmas b-day ) after he left I cried so hard I had hide my face so no one would notice.
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My mom was a victim of physical and mental abuse which she then pushed onto me
When my mom sees that I'm upset she finds thing that would make me even more upset even unintentionally
My grandpa used to tell my mom to stop when she herself was upset and I remember when I was going through a depressed state and we had just sold our house and we were staying at my grandparents house and my grandpa had kicked us out because he didn't want us to move so we were staying at a hotel and I had no clothes, had not showered, shaken up, and going through a depression wave. I was sitting on the floor crying and my mom to stop crying and that I was fine.
My family (grandpa, aunts uncles, great grandma etc) are extremely manipulative, a few days before our move my uncle tried telling me that what my mom was doing was wrong (moving away, which I think is the best thing for us at the moment) and that he thought my mom was crazy ( at the time this was at my grandmas b-day ) after he left I cried so hard I had hide my face so no one would notice.
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SStiCC
I come from a loving 2 parent house hold. Once i end up having a child, i tried to do the whole raise my son in a family environment thing. One thing that was life changing for me i did not see coming. My girlfriend was brought up in a toxic traumatic family structure. Just like the laws of science makes fact negative and positive will always outcome to negative. No matter how much positive energy i put into my relationship the negative would rise as the champ. Slowly over time i became this sad, angry, lost shell of my self. Doing things i would never think of in all my days. Violent because i could not find any other way to express myself after trying all the things i had learnt from my parents. Its truly sad. I fight for my relationship everyday & now it looks like im the villain because of how far im willing to go to save it. To the mother of my son these things are normal and i cant seem to understand why. I just wish i knew before all of these things happened
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I come from a loving 2 parent house hold. Once i end up having a child, i tried to do the whole raise my son in a family environment thing. One thing that was life changing for me i did not see coming. My girlfriend was brought up in a toxic traumatic family structure. Just like the laws of science makes fact negative and positive will always outcome to negative. No matter how much positive energy i put into my relationship the negative would rise as the champ. Slowly over time i became this sad, angry, lost shell of my self. Doing things i would never think of in all my days. Violent because i could not find any other way to express myself after trying all the things i had learnt from my parents. Its truly sad. I fight for my relationship everyday & now it looks like im the villain because of how far im willing to go to save it. To the mother of my son these things are normal and i cant seem to understand why. I just wish i knew before all of these things happened
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Jennifer
Withdrawal from social interactions is usually because no one believes them and they are so hyper aware of their surroundings & as a result develop bad aniexty when in groups. They tend to think others view them the same way as the abuser. If you are being verbally abused and you cant leave the situation do this one thing as much as possible. invest in a discreet pair of ear buds and when the verbal abuse starts lock yourself away in a room and play something (positive affirmations is good, i like to lusten to religious scripture) very loud on your earbuds and block out the verbal abuse. Do not injest it. I sont care how mad it makes the abuser keep those ear buds in and if they toich you physically immediately call the police. Do not yell or engage back with these people. Stay safe and protect your mind.
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Withdrawal from social interactions is usually because no one believes them and they are so hyper aware of their surroundings & as a result develop bad aniexty when in groups. They tend to think others view them the same way as the abuser. If you are being verbally abused and you cant leave the situation do this one thing as much as possible. invest in a discreet pair of ear buds and when the verbal abuse starts lock yourself away in a room and play something (positive affirmations is good, i like to lusten to religious scripture) very loud on your earbuds and block out the verbal abuse. Do not injest it. I sont care how mad it makes the abuser keep those ear buds in and if they toich you physically immediately call the police. Do not yell or engage back with these people. Stay safe and protect your mind.
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fluffycorgi
I was physically and emotionally abused by BOTH of my parents since preschool. 24 years later, I still am. But every family member and relative always and constantly berates me, while telling me my parents did everything for me. Even my brother thinks I'm a lazy spoiled brat when I'm really just extremely depressed most of the time and anxious every time I go out and enter the house. I've been threatened of being disowned repeatedly growing up (earliest preschool) just for standing up for myself and my beliefs. I was beaten black and blue with large, steel, clothes hangers until it split into two. With everything they put me through, I'm amazed they always just blamed me for being messed up when they made me like this.
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I was physically and emotionally abused by BOTH of my parents since preschool. 24 years later, I still am. But every family member and relative always and constantly berates me, while telling me my parents did everything for me. Even my brother thinks I'm a lazy spoiled brat when I'm really just extremely depressed most of the time and anxious every time I go out and enter the house. I've been threatened of being disowned repeatedly growing up (earliest preschool) just for standing up for myself and my beliefs. I was beaten black and blue with large, steel, clothes hangers until it split into two. With everything they put me through, I'm amazed they always just blamed me for being messed up when they made me like this.
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Kate
This video really explains me well, and I feel like it's because my mom has been emotionally abusive. Also, the fact my parents neglected us in an emotional way. This also because of the physical and verbal abuse my parent were to each other, especially my dad. I do forgive him, and now he is completely normal but sometimes thinking of the past makes me want to strangle him. Now he is just addicted to smoking and gaming. And my mom is bipolar for sure, one time she screams at me and blames me for it, then she acts all kind, and then she wants me to go away because I am annoying. And idk any more, I'm still being emotional abused and neglected even though I'm now an adult.
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This video really explains me well, and I feel like it's because my mom has been emotionally abusive. Also, the fact my parents neglected us in an emotional way. This also because of the physical and verbal abuse my parent were to each other, especially my dad. I do forgive him, and now he is completely normal but sometimes thinking of the past makes me want to strangle him. Now he is just addicted to smoking and gaming. And my mom is bipolar for sure, one time she screams at me and blames me for it, then she acts all kind, and then she wants me to go away because I am annoying. And idk any more, I'm still being emotional abused and neglected even though I'm now an adult.
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p1ercing
Hello psych2go, my name is Aspen I am a person with adhd, my parents will not medicate me until they believe I need it. Not only that through alot of research I have found that my mom has been emotionally abusing me for years now. I fel absolute miserable I really hope anyone reads this because I'm in between a rock and a hard place fight now. I'm risking having a fight with my mom for you to read this. Please if anyone reads this please just tell me something to help me I don't want to keep fighting with her until I turn 18 and move out. Please just anyone spread the message if you can. Just anything to help me
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Hello psych2go, my name is Aspen I am a person with adhd, my parents will not medicate me until they believe I need it. Not only that through alot of research I have found that my mom has been emotionally abusing me for years now. I fel absolute miserable I really hope anyone reads this because I'm in between a rock and a hard place fight now. I'm risking having a fight with my mom for you to read this. Please if anyone reads this please just tell me something to help me I don't want to keep fighting with her until I turn 18 and move out. Please just anyone spread the message if you can. Just anything to help me
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The
Throughout my entire childhood I have experienced emotional abuse. I have been belittled for my feelings, been blamed for things I didnt do. Had to mature at an early age in order to keep the environment better for the angered party. And had to suppress my true self.
When I was younger I acted weirder then my parent wanted me to be. They always called me names and blamed me for mistakes that were out of my control. Now when I bump into a wall I apologize to it. I was treated like I wasnt a good enough child for them. I felt like that impacted how I made friends and relationships later on in my life, deeply.
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Throughout my entire childhood I have experienced emotional abuse. I have been belittled for my feelings, been blamed for things I didnt do. Had to mature at an early age in order to keep the environment better for the angered party. And had to suppress my true self.
When I was younger I acted weirder then my parent wanted me to be. They always called me names and blamed me for mistakes that were out of my control. Now when I bump into a wall I apologize to it. I was treated like I wasnt a good enough child for them. I felt like that impacted how I made friends and relationships later on in my life, deeply.
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Maria
Since I was baby I was abused by gettin yelled at and I still to this day and today I was crying I have been doing that since I was born and I feel I dont want live my family anymore like Im now I want to live with my boyfriend because he is so nice he cares and also since I was a baby my parents have been fighting and arguing since I was born and some they throw stuff and my mom would come and covered with food and very time they fight and go to my bedroom is my ears very nervous and sometimes I get nervous to where I start crying and And im definitely that in that whole video
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Since I was baby I was abused by gettin yelled at and I still to this day and today I was crying I have been doing that since I was born and I feel I dont want live my family anymore like Im now I want to live with my boyfriend because he is so nice he cares and also since I was a baby my parents have been fighting and arguing since I was born and some they throw stuff and my mom would come and covered with food and very time they fight and go to my bedroom is my ears very nervous and sometimes I get nervous to where I start crying and And im definitely that in that whole video
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Brenda
Today I regained my freedom, with it comes a sense of peace. I no longer am at the mercy of my ex husband.
It took 3 weeks at the psychiatric hospital to see how terrible the abuse, and violence of the abuse was. I had to endure being homeless after a back surgery but, it was so worth it.
I am free, I am blessed, I am myself again. I will never give anyone the power to subject me again to that terror.
Please, if you are in that situation seek help. There are plenty of agencies that are caring and dedicated to help.
I'm proof of that.
Peace and light to all.
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Today I regained my freedom, with it comes a sense of peace. I no longer am at the mercy of my ex husband.
It took 3 weeks at the psychiatric hospital to see how terrible the abuse, and violence of the abuse was. I had to endure being homeless after a back surgery but, it was so worth it.
I am free, I am blessed, I am myself again. I will never give anyone the power to subject me again to that terror.
Please, if you are in that situation seek help. There are plenty of agencies that are caring and dedicated to help.
I'm proof of that.
Peace and light to all.
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Fares
Fear of law officers is because they represent a form of authority. And traumatized people are mostly traumatized first place by parents who are also a form of authority. The first actually. so the link happens unconsciously. another layer to that is that that form of authority is supposed to be a protection not a source of fear. So these images concide and cause irrational fear and anxiety around forms of authority especially law enforcement. the explaination you provided is so absurd. E everything else was on the spot
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Fear of law officers is because they represent a form of authority. And traumatized people are mostly traumatized first place by parents who are also a form of authority. The first actually. so the link happens unconsciously. another layer to that is that that form of authority is supposed to be a protection not a source of fear. So these images concide and cause irrational fear and anxiety around forms of authority especially law enforcement. the explaination you provided is so absurd. E everything else was on the spot
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Freyaiplier
Idk about withdrawal. My bf did support me and build my confidence but time to time something strange happened he disappeared on me for almost 2 months and idk about all of those were his doing or mine. I did had episodes of crying bcs he tried to test me if I didnt leave him or I was the one. I do say sorry a lot and blame myself but idk if he did the same tho. He did mention his trauma past with his father and family. Plus he did disappeared on me before and he did hurt my feelings in text last year tho.
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Idk about withdrawal. My bf did support me and build my confidence but time to time something strange happened he disappeared on me for almost 2 months and idk about all of those were his doing or mine. I did had episodes of crying bcs he tried to test me if I didnt leave him or I was the one. I do say sorry a lot and blame myself but idk if he did the same tho. He did mention his trauma past with his father and family. Plus he did disappeared on me before and he did hurt my feelings in text last year tho.
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Robin
The bit about an abuser keeping tabs on what the other person eats really got me, because my emotionally abusive girlfriend of three years (long distance) used to do that. A lot. I've experienced so many of these symptoms as a result of that relationship but I'm happy to say that as of this past Sunday, I have abruptly quit that relationship and am currently moving on with my life. The trauma will take a long while to heal, but I'm finally on the road to recovery.
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The bit about an abuser keeping tabs on what the other person eats really got me, because my emotionally abusive girlfriend of three years (long distance) used to do that. A lot. I've experienced so many of these symptoms as a result of that relationship but I'm happy to say that as of this past Sunday, I have abruptly quit that relationship and am currently moving on with my life. The trauma will take a long while to heal, but I'm finally on the road to recovery.
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ninjamaxhaven13
Yup. Some of these definitely resonated. I had to cut out my parents because they put me through emotional abuse. I'm an independent 27 year old and they don't like that, so when i lived with them, they did everything to belittle me such as locking me outside, yelling at me, gaslighting me into thinking im effed up, not giving me proper nutrition, and the list goes on. Since I've moved out, im slowly getting better, but i do experience some of this.
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Yup. Some of these definitely resonated. I had to cut out my parents because they put me through emotional abuse. I'm an independent 27 year old and they don't like that, so when i lived with them, they did everything to belittle me such as locking me outside, yelling at me, gaslighting me into thinking im effed up, not giving me proper nutrition, and the list goes on. Since I've moved out, im slowly getting better, but i do experience some of this.
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1973
Can you explain, how when you have been thru many of these physical, mental, or emotional issues, that a therapist would say your mentally ill? We all, in my opinion were not originally off kilter, until that certain ABUSER came into our lives! Now, because your disabled from these events happening in your life, or because you physically cannot work. people STILL TO THIS DAY, look at you and assume your a nut case? It's truly disgusting and demeaning!
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Can you explain, how when you have been thru many of these physical, mental, or emotional issues, that a therapist would say your mentally ill? We all, in my opinion were not originally off kilter, until that certain ABUSER came into our lives! Now, because your disabled from these events happening in your life, or because you physically cannot work. people STILL TO THIS DAY, look at you and assume your a nut case? It's truly disgusting and demeaning!
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Noena
Today my mom told me I'm useless and lazy, I couldn't hold back my tears then that always tell me they wanna help me or that they are there for me if I want to talk. But every time I talk it turns into a lecture in their eyes they always right and I'm in the wrong. I hate it so much I even asked myself if I'm useless I was never suppose to be born and I think of taking my life every day this is just so tiring I can't anymore
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Today my mom told me I'm useless and lazy, I couldn't hold back my tears then that always tell me they wanna help me or that they are there for me if I want to talk. But every time I talk it turns into a lecture in their eyes they always right and I'm in the wrong. I hate it so much I even asked myself if I'm useless I was never suppose to be born and I think of taking my life every day this is just so tiring I can't anymore
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Cakes
so I resonated with literally everything on this list. and only showed it up until a couple of months ago. When I got kicked out of my parents' house, to be more specific. Once I got out these symptoms went away. I know it's most logically because I've removed myself from the abuse finally but now I'm afraid that not being mentally ill anymore makes my pain less valid somehow. thank you for making this video
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so I resonated with literally everything on this list. and only showed it up until a couple of months ago. When I got kicked out of my parents' house, to be more specific. Once I got out these symptoms went away. I know it's most logically because I've removed myself from the abuse finally but now I'm afraid that not being mentally ill anymore makes my pain less valid somehow. thank you for making this video
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Arthur
The most relatable one for me is 0: 31 withdrawal, 1: 05 low self-esteem and worthlessness 2: 23 frequently crying 3: 17 blaming myself for things this one is too relatable. I blame myself all the time. I even apologize to things that aren't even alive. I caught myself doing this in Walmart and my mother asked if I just apologized to an object. I joked it off but I have done this way too many times.
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The most relatable one for me is 0: 31 withdrawal, 1: 05 low self-esteem and worthlessness 2: 23 frequently crying 3: 17 blaming myself for things this one is too relatable. I blame myself all the time. I even apologize to things that aren't even alive. I caught myself doing this in Walmart and my mother asked if I just apologized to an object. I joked it off but I have done this way too many times.
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ToP
I was and still am being emotionally abused by my parents, and that has driven me into a void of no escape. I have attempted suicide multiple times, have mental illnesses (C-PTSD, schizoaffective disorder, panic disorder, severe anxiety, and have just about given up on life. Only two people care about me anymore, and once they leave me, I'll break, but for the last time.
I'm only 14.
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I was and still am being emotionally abused by my parents, and that has driven me into a void of no escape. I have attempted suicide multiple times, have mental illnesses (C-PTSD, schizoaffective disorder, panic disorder, severe anxiety, and have just about given up on life. Only two people care about me anymore, and once they leave me, I'll break, but for the last time.
I'm only 14.
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Kimmy
Guess the angry outbursts make more sense now. Everyone else just said I was being hyper-aggressive, an asshole, potentially abusive, or just generally telling me my anger is my problem. So now I just try to hide it away, putting on carefully crafted masks to prevent people from being too close. Its been getting to a point where it feels more like a FP game than real life.
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Guess the angry outbursts make more sense now. Everyone else just said I was being hyper-aggressive, an asshole, potentially abusive, or just generally telling me my anger is my problem. So now I just try to hide it away, putting on carefully crafted masks to prevent people from being too close. Its been getting to a point where it feels more like a FP game than real life.
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Lance
Wirral social workers have ignored such abuse! We have been alienated from our granddaughter and have not seen her since December 2020! She has been influenced to abandon one half of her family! They have been ignoring our concerns for her for the past five years! We have emailed all concerned from the director of children's services down. She has just turned 6.
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Wirral social workers have ignored such abuse! We have been alienated from our granddaughter and have not seen her since December 2020! She has been influenced to abandon one half of her family! They have been ignoring our concerns for her for the past five years! We have emailed all concerned from the director of children's services down. She has just turned 6.
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education
Problem is too many people in the psychology field are just as screwed up as you are. Why? because they are people too. I've lost all trust for mental health professionals, after dealing with some not so professional mental health professionals. You pay good money for their advice when you can basically get the same good advice from a friend. Seriously.
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Problem is too many people in the psychology field are just as screwed up as you are. Why? because they are people too. I've lost all trust for mental health professionals, after dealing with some not so professional mental health professionals. You pay good money for their advice when you can basically get the same good advice from a friend. Seriously.
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[PR]Leafy
When I was 11 years old (my, my classmate told me to close his bag, until I broke it. My classmate is angry and blamed me for breaking his bag, I tried to apologize but in the end, I been blamed. In night, I got trauma of predictions like what if my classmate report to my parents. I don't want to dead: (
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When I was 11 years old (my, my classmate told me to close his bag, until I broke it. My classmate is angry and blamed me for breaking his bag, I tried to apologize but in the end, I been blamed. In night, I got trauma of predictions like what if my classmate report to my parents. I don't want to dead: (
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Little_miss_M
My mom was walking past me and I quickly switched tabs, idk why but I felt like I had to hid this and some of your other videos while watching them. My mom does say and do a lot of the things you point out as verbally, emotionally, and mentally abusive. So it kinda makes sense lol
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My mom was walking past me and I quickly switched tabs, idk why but I felt like I had to hid this and some of your other videos while watching them. My mom does say and do a lot of the things you point out as verbally, emotionally, and mentally abusive. So it kinda makes sense lol
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David
There is one sign you are missing. If you suddenly feel the urge to take hormone blockers or alter your biological body parts, you are probably dealing with a psychotic parent/teacher that is force feeding you garbage propaganda and in turn abusing you. Get help immediately.
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There is one sign you are missing. If you suddenly feel the urge to take hormone blockers or alter your biological body parts, you are probably dealing with a psychotic parent/teacher that is force feeding you garbage propaganda and in turn abusing you. Get help immediately.
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Lyssa
I have all but 3 and I dont fear law officers cause lots of my family used to be law officers but I want to see a therapist but I know my parents will yell at me for it I keep questioning myself but my mom is the cause of all this and all my bullies from schools Ive been to
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I have all but 3 and I dont fear law officers cause lots of my family used to be law officers but I want to see a therapist but I know my parents will yell at me for it I keep questioning myself but my mom is the cause of all this and all my bullies from schools Ive been to
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