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3 Signs Someone is Projecting Their Insecurities Into You

3 Signs Someone is Projecting Their Insecurities Into You

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In this video, we're going to talk about the phenomenon called projection. Projection is a defense mechanism used to deal with feelings of insecurity and inadequacy. We all have times when we project our own insecurities onto other people. Sometimes, this happens unconsciously, and we don't even realize it. In this video, we're going to explore the different ways in which projection can occur, and how you can overcome it. By understanding projection, you'll be able to stop falling victim to it and start living your life to the fullest!
Date: 2023-08-20

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Immortal temptation
Takes over my mind, condemned
Falling weak on my knees
Summon the strength of mayhem
I am the storm that is approaching
Provoking black clouds in isolation
I am reclaimer of my name
Born in flames, I have been blessed
My family crest is a demon of death
Forsakened, I am awakened
A phoenix's ash in dark divine
Descending misery
Destiny chasing time
Inherit the nightmare, surrounded by fate
Can't run away
Keep walking the line, between the light
Led astray
Through vacant halls I won't surrender
The truth revealed in eyes of ember
We fight through fire and ice forever
Two souls once lost, and now they remember
I am the storm that is approaching
Provoking black clouds in isolation
I am reclaimer of my name
Born in flames, I have been blessed
My family crest is a demon of death
Forsakened, I am awakened
A phoenix's ash in dark divine
Descending misery
Destiny chasing time
Disappear into the night
Lost shadows left behind
Obsession's pulling me
Fading, I've come to take what's mine
Lurking in the shadows under veil of night
Constellations of blood pirouette
Dancing through the graves of those who stand at my feet
Dreams of the black throne I keep on repeat
A derelict of dark, summoned from the ashes
The puppet master congregates all the masses
Pulling strings, twisting minds as blades hit
You want this power? Then come try and take it
Beyond the tree, fire burns
Secret love, bloodline yearns
Dark minds embrace, crimson joy
Does your dim heart heal or destroy?
Bury the light deep within
Cast aside, there's no coming home
We're burning chaos in the wind
Drifting in the ocean all alone

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My last relationship we were mirror's of one another, like twin flames I had not been in such a deep connecting relationship. I was struck with cupids arrow and so were she. We would talk all night long about everything from past relations to struggles all forms known one another for a decade and found out we had mutual feels for oneanother. Alot of this protection happened, your videos have helped me reflect back. I wish I had know what I've upgraded my mind with in the past full moon cycle march full moon to April's full moon. From my anxious attatchment that was secured to their anxious avoident not so secure with the projections of their emotionally poisons brought to the subliminal surface. I didn't see and had become anx/attached in three weeks of deep diving in to 14 books and your videos empath/narc and this my past issues and theirs. My lack of this knowledge I being and extrovert to their introvert. We were a great match on the surface and then the communication begun to have its issues due to I not seeing her with all the questions and pushing insecurity. I had no insecurity but past issues I was afraid to trigger in her for it would turn to argument and her running and I just wanting to talk. To I being drained of my empathy inward hurt her inward hurt. Totally has reced my mental health. But with the knowledge I have now all I want is to sit with my friend and talk about the depth of our minds and the darkplaces in which need light of our interests to cast where we were afraid to go. Thank you for holding space lol I'm the one dropping thus your videos are wonderful n I wish I'd found them months ago.
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to be honest i do sometimes project my insecurities to others, but mostly through my thoughts, i don't really say it out loud. It kind of scares me sometimes, because im a kind person. But when i see somethin like a happy couple i feel bad that i dont have that, then i see someone whos single like me, and i kinda feel bad about them. and despite me knowing this is wrong i keep feeling this way, and i just wonder. would i see others as inferior if i ever find a lasting relationship? I don't want to be this type of person. So everyday i try to tell myself to stop thinking that way, its mean.
what really helped me was seeing happily single poeple, who i kinda look up to because of that, and it helps me feel better about myself when i see and have proof, that people can strive no matter that kinda stuff. kinda weird to explain, But i'm trying not to judge everyone i see so negatively, and i try not to think about those silly little things, and i can say depsite the regressions, i've grow more so a little bit stronger and more self-confident.

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I project more happiness for my friends to feel better in the dark times.
Would lie that I never had a negative projection. But that's in the past.
Recently confessed to my only irl friend I known for years that I love them. They are currently not looking for a relationship at the moment due too relationship experiences (which was online for them. I am fine with them taking a break from that. I love them equally for who they are and will try to protect them.
Even though me and him are different, him being a extrovert, plays VRChat, and gets popularity to the friend group.
Me, an omnivert(mostly introvert) that plays games and relax for most part and have fun with life.
I only hope that people never project their harsh mindsets onto others. Instead, cherish with those before you. In the end, people are with you for a reason.

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Not related to the video, but is low self-esteem, self doubt and fatigue only linked to mental abuse? Or are there any other problems that can be linked to those signs? Because reading most of the comments on the mental abuse video, I feel sorry for those affected but at the same time, I'm thankful my parents aren't like those in the comments but yet I still have those 3 out of the 5 signs.
No, I'm not being manipulated by them. They're just normal parents. I showed my sister the video and she says she doesn't relate to any of them. I'd be grateful for some answers as it's making me doubt my parents and I don't want that. It makes me feel like a jerk because they are loving parents but yet I relate to 3 of the signs of mental abuse.

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I find it likely that every single one of us has projected our insecurities at some point. What we NEED to do is embrace our insecurities as an integral part of ourselves. As long as we project them we avoid taking responsibility for actually addressing them. When we don't address these insecurities our inner demons eventually come out and start causing damage. When we embrace our insecurities and then continue to embrace them we ironically begin to slowly improve in those areas, laying the foundation for turning our inner demons into inner angels. So, embrace your insecurities. It's going to be okay, in the end.
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I have a certain friend who recently has acted kinda strange. Kinda like what they were saying didn't seem to match up with their actions or what they've said in the past. I kinda had a feeling they were somewhat projecting, even though they didn't get super mad or frustrated. When I watched this video, I was surprised to have answered yes to all of these signs (except the overreaction one was more of a maybe. I wish there was some way I could help my friend, I'm pretty sure they're going through something right now but they won't tell me anything
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Sorry for asking this again, but is there any other reason why one might have low self-esteem, self doubt or fatigue that isn't mental abuse? I relate to those as listed in the mental abuse video but I don't think I have been through what most of the comments in that video have went through but yet I relate to those 3 signs out of the 5. It would be great to hear back from you about this as now I'm kind of worried about my parents because even though they aren't abusive in any way, I relate to those mentioned 3 signs from the video.
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Yes. I have been a frequent victim of this. All three of these. But not from a romantic partner. but from a family member which is worse.
My sister. she's done all three because she sees me as weak, she's even said that she's not happy unless she's dominating everything that's happening at a party she's at.
I want to have chats with people and I won't always agree with them, this is fine as it shows they value my company enough to be able to disagree with me on various subjects.
My sister however, gets angry about it.

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recently ive felt like ive been getting cheated on due to the distance between who i love and me and the decrease in time spent together overall. i accused her of cheating but i never thought of cheating on her nor did i ever i just want to spend time with her yet idk how to word it to her in order to make sure we end up not getting annoyed at each other as anything i mention that im concerned about she seems to not even care to acknowledge. if someone has a suggestion? please tell me as i love her and dont wish to lose her.
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After watching this i now have this in my mind you know that drama about twitter trying to cancel mrbeast maybe the people who are trying to cancel mrbeast have insecurity like try to think in almost every drama twitter always get overreacted when mrbeast is doing something good even when he did not do anything wrong and tried to cancel mrbeast even when they dont have any single envidence they still try to cancel mr beast so maybe that is why there is so many drama about twitter cancelling mrbeast
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in the last year of high school before graduating, i met someone who criticized the way i communicate and behave in the first place and tell me I'm illegible and want me to work on my skills. even though i tell them i'm learning but turned out they're weirded out. which they're projecting insecurities due to its obvious they have mental problems based on their trauma. so, i decided if i stay away from these types of people because of my barely familiar experiences with them. it is what it is
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If you want to see criminals projecting(try)listening to fox news or discrimination criminals, you have to find the difference between making up flaws, 0% empithy(and litterly doing the words in someones mouth(if your a little bit smart and know freedom is good, criminals dont actuelly have anything against sane normal people)the 3rd part is projection.
Its easy to find out the projection, find new words/ideas, you know more about criminal insane.

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Its painful when you loved someone deeply, and first knowing u were deeply wronged in a relational standpoint, but also the final nail in the coffin being a projection against u in a most painful manner that made you doubt your capacity for love of the one thing you loved more than anything, and then believing the doubt and fuelling your self-perception on it for the longest while afterwards
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I remember I was in a group of friends in a fandom, and even though I was diagnosed with autism at the time. I had some people projected their insecurities to me and they were. emotional damaging. Like it was upsetting as idk why they acted like that. What made it worst, only a few people defended me but I ended up getting rejected by friends. im getting better now with threapy but it still hurts
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I can definitely relate to the reaction one. My ex had expressed concerns that she would never be able to become a therapist (her dream job, and I told her that my goal was to become a professional musician. When we broke up, she said I don't see you going anywhere in life, you'll just be sitting in your hole, playing guitar and writing songs that no one listens to.
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Someone was convinced I wanted to steal her boyfriend bc I followed his business account to send referrals. We never dm'd, she knows i'm queer, and she knows he's not my favorite person. The whole situation was triggering, I blocked her on stuff mid way through her insults but I'm gonna have to change my number bc of threats she sent.
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I've probably projected onto many people but I now notice that my mom might have projected something onto me. When I told her I weighed 65 she said that's what I weighed when I met your dad, I was 20 she might have projected her own insecurity of her own weight and how she's having a really har time loosing any weight
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hey, could you make a video about Gaslighting and how to identify it and/or overcome it if you're the victim, or how to become better if you're the person gaslighting someone?
I'm mainly asking this because your videos are very informative and enjoyable to watch, and it may help people out of tough situations: >

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Learning to see projection allows you to know if an argument is between the two of you or if they are arguing with themselves. Learning to see when people are arguing with themselves gives you the ability to let up and change the subject. If they are arguing with themselves, you have zero chance to win that argument.
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Thank you. I have a question I'm an introvert but I've noticed I've become a bit less hard to get along maybe is the people. But my character is sometimes introverted or extrovert. Im not sure whether I'm an Ambiavert. Could you do a video on Ambiavert. Their character, love life and interaction with people
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Hey, psychtogo! Can you make a video about autism and how to make interactions easier. I have autism myself and its very difficult for me to life a normal life. I have a lot of people asking me what autism means and I cant really awnser them. For me its normal, for them its something they dont understand.
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This is BY FAR my favorite video. Going through the worst right now, abandonment issues to the max just got out of a year and a half of this bull projection & abuse in all aspects. So ready for this new chapter really keep up the videos i love the diversity of the depth yall research in all the videos
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Hey! I was just wondering if you could maybe do some stuff with online friends! I sometimes see that some of the stuff you guys do is like in real life! I would love to watch a good online one of your videos so I can double check a friendship-
Anyways thank you for all yall do! It truely helps!

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I remember this girl that bullied me in school for no reason I have adhd and sometimes I say things without think even tho I dont mean it she would just treat me like crap because of it she was Friends with my other friends so my other friend told me its not your fault shes been going through a lot
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