Reasons Why You Do not Like Being Around Other People
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Date: 2024-01-21
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forgesoulfire1320
Ayo, long time viewer now right here and I for one like to consider myself as a (now selective) ambivert. IF I'm in a group (but not crowd though) and I'm not getting huge judgemental waves of rhetoric and just generally what I'd call exclusionary energy, I'm typically a rather social and chatty person. I've learned tid bits about any subject I could just to be able to converse on nearly any subject (I've sadly gotten called a know-it-all for that) however I am also now rather purpose driven in my excursions out of my home, like if I go to the library it's with a dedicated purpose (not open ended like friend seeking or chatting) and the same goes for shopping at stores (window shopping basically only in relationships, you top all that off with me not being a socializer if I'm outdoors to exercise. and I don't know how successful I am at being an ambivert. Especially with health issues (physical and mental) and bad weather interfering lately.
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Ayo, long time viewer now right here and I for one like to consider myself as a (now selective) ambivert. IF I'm in a group (but not crowd though) and I'm not getting huge judgemental waves of rhetoric and just generally what I'd call exclusionary energy, I'm typically a rather social and chatty person. I've learned tid bits about any subject I could just to be able to converse on nearly any subject (I've sadly gotten called a know-it-all for that) however I am also now rather purpose driven in my excursions out of my home, like if I go to the library it's with a dedicated purpose (not open ended like friend seeking or chatting) and the same goes for shopping at stores (window shopping basically only in relationships, you top all that off with me not being a socializer if I'm outdoors to exercise. and I don't know how successful I am at being an ambivert. Especially with health issues (physical and mental) and bad weather interfering lately.
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LordEradicus
A lot of this resonated with me. I do like to be alone, because many people have brought me pain, stress, and outright hardships in my life, so I do find contentment and peace in solitude. Yes, there are times when I do get lonely and even occasionally sad because of the loneliness, but then when I'm around other people it tends to be a negative or outright unpleasant experience. It seems like people tend create problems for me that I wouldn't have otherwise. This is by no means applies to everyone I interact with, but it is the vast majority, so I admit to being very much a loner, but more by circumstance, not by actual desire. The strange part is that I do have people skills and can use them to have friendly interactions with a wide range of people from all walks of life, but I still keep them at arm's length and hope they don't eventually impose upon me.
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A lot of this resonated with me. I do like to be alone, because many people have brought me pain, stress, and outright hardships in my life, so I do find contentment and peace in solitude. Yes, there are times when I do get lonely and even occasionally sad because of the loneliness, but then when I'm around other people it tends to be a negative or outright unpleasant experience. It seems like people tend create problems for me that I wouldn't have otherwise. This is by no means applies to everyone I interact with, but it is the vast majority, so I admit to being very much a loner, but more by circumstance, not by actual desire. The strange part is that I do have people skills and can use them to have friendly interactions with a wide range of people from all walks of life, but I still keep them at arm's length and hope they don't eventually impose upon me.
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work8078
for me its really hard to explain bt hasically im afraid to talk to people in school that im not befriended with and i feel werd when someone talks to me like im their friend. thats also because in school everyones extremly immature and bullies others for not liking popular things (being different. i love talking to people that i KNOW that i like and so im not afraid to talk to people in games as they dont see me in real life and i get to think what to say before saying it and if theyre annoying i can just leave. and in real life it follows me the entire time. also i uncontrollably get mad easily so its hard for me to keep calm while talking as i then stutter alot (especially when i suddenly get talked to) i really just cant explain it.
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for me its really hard to explain bt hasically im afraid to talk to people in school that im not befriended with and i feel werd when someone talks to me like im their friend. thats also because in school everyones extremly immature and bullies others for not liking popular things (being different. i love talking to people that i KNOW that i like and so im not afraid to talk to people in games as they dont see me in real life and i get to think what to say before saying it and if theyre annoying i can just leave. and in real life it follows me the entire time. also i uncontrollably get mad easily so its hard for me to keep calm while talking as i then stutter alot (especially when i suddenly get talked to) i really just cant explain it.
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Ilovevintage77
I find other people very selfish and draining. They talk too much and don’t bother to ask you anything about yourself. They don’t respect boundaries. I am chronically ill and yes I can make friends very easily but I tire super easily bc I haven’t found people who aren’t boring or into themselves too much and it’s just very stressful and they have this energy that’s too stimulating that gets me so exhausted I’m over it in two hours. My battery is done in 2 hours. I am very happy with my own company and yes I am definitely an HSP and react to their emotions and feelings
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I find other people very selfish and draining. They talk too much and don’t bother to ask you anything about yourself. They don’t respect boundaries. I am chronically ill and yes I can make friends very easily but I tire super easily bc I haven’t found people who aren’t boring or into themselves too much and it’s just very stressful and they have this energy that’s too stimulating that gets me so exhausted I’m over it in two hours. My battery is done in 2 hours. I am very happy with my own company and yes I am definitely an HSP and react to their emotions and feelings
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joylechanceux4805
I like being alone but also being with people because I think both are necessary to have a good mental health but I also like being with people because I feel like I spend almost my whole life alone because even tho I was with people and had friends I felt alone with my thoughts and problems and I just had no one to help me so I appreciate when people choose to spend time with me and genuinely care about my problems and opinions so yeah I think doing a little bit of both is important but just make sure to take some time alone to relax sometimes
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I like being alone but also being with people because I think both are necessary to have a good mental health but I also like being with people because I feel like I spend almost my whole life alone because even tho I was with people and had friends I felt alone with my thoughts and problems and I just had no one to help me so I appreciate when people choose to spend time with me and genuinely care about my problems and opinions so yeah I think doing a little bit of both is important but just make sure to take some time alone to relax sometimes
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purpleloveeeee01
These are some of my subjective reasons as to why I avoid people in general: -
1. People make small talk and I hate it.
2. Most of the time human interaction simply drains the hell out of me.
3. It takes a lot of energy to just be with them because with most people I need to pretend to be someone else. I think I just realized I should be myself more.
4. The basic programming of humans are so different from mine. Sorry I don't know how else to explain it.
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These are some of my subjective reasons as to why I avoid people in general: -
1. People make small talk and I hate it.
2. Most of the time human interaction simply drains the hell out of me.
3. It takes a lot of energy to just be with them because with most people I need to pretend to be someone else. I think I just realized I should be myself more.
4. The basic programming of humans are so different from mine. Sorry I don't know how else to explain it.
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MhhSalty
Me personally i dont have a problem with being with people i just generally dont like almost everyone and its not even their fault i've just become such a hatred filled person that its so confusing im friends with so many people. And for the first time i admit i might need help but im afraid to get it because i am to put it lightly a coward of a man. I dont even know if i can call myself a man. Not that im gonna get a response either way lol im just yapping now
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Me personally i dont have a problem with being with people i just generally dont like almost everyone and its not even their fault i've just become such a hatred filled person that its so confusing im friends with so many people. And for the first time i admit i might need help but im afraid to get it because i am to put it lightly a coward of a man. I dont even know if i can call myself a man. Not that im gonna get a response either way lol im just yapping now
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psych2go
This is me right now. I am in the wrong circle and it sucks because I can't left them even if I wanted to so bad because it will make my life in university so much harder since there's group assignment. Sure, I can find other circles but most of them are just. unreachable I guess.
I'm also an introvert so I can't match my circle's energy. Truthfully, they are so toxic and I really can feel my mental health deteriorates so much. What should I do
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This is me right now. I am in the wrong circle and it sucks because I can't left them even if I wanted to so bad because it will make my life in university so much harder since there's group assignment. Sure, I can find other circles but most of them are just. unreachable I guess.
I'm also an introvert so I can't match my circle's energy. Truthfully, they are so toxic and I really can feel my mental health deteriorates so much. What should I do
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EthetteZ3R0
1. Traumatic experiences(that made me feel Afraid of almost everyone in existence)
2. People around me are rude or don't respect my boundaries.
3. I live in a toxic environment that don't even understand my feelings, boundaries and my sufferings.
4. I wanna be alone to understand myself better.
5. I got mad easily, so I don't be with people because I'll get mad at them for no reason and that'll be super toxic.
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1. Traumatic experiences(that made me feel Afraid of almost everyone in existence)
2. People around me are rude or don't respect my boundaries.
3. I live in a toxic environment that don't even understand my feelings, boundaries and my sufferings.
4. I wanna be alone to understand myself better.
5. I got mad easily, so I don't be with people because I'll get mad at them for no reason and that'll be super toxic.
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Lord_Mangoat
I'm an introvert. Social gatherings can lead me to be tired rather quickly. Loud noises also seem to make me tired quicker as well, such as loud places, either the music or people just being loud. Even still, I try to force myself into situations I know I can't handle for very long, if I know friends will be there. I want my friends to know I'm wanting to hang out, even if the location isn't to my comfort level.
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I'm an introvert. Social gatherings can lead me to be tired rather quickly. Loud noises also seem to make me tired quicker as well, such as loud places, either the music or people just being loud. Even still, I try to force myself into situations I know I can't handle for very long, if I know friends will be there. I want my friends to know I'm wanting to hang out, even if the location isn't to my comfort level.
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ameliajagielska
I feel like every of thise reason is something I can relate to. I hate being with people so much, all I need in my life is a cat, nice music, a good book or series and myself. Doing skincare, sleeping, going on walks, clearing my room - those are things I can do daily and find it fun, but I just can't hang around with people. I only go hang out with someone like once for two months or something like that
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I feel like every of thise reason is something I can relate to. I hate being with people so much, all I need in my life is a cat, nice music, a good book or series and myself. Doing skincare, sleeping, going on walks, clearing my room - those are things I can do daily and find it fun, but I just can't hang around with people. I only go hang out with someone like once for two months or something like that
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yuushinatori511
Thank you for the last point, I feel seen. Most people shame you or mock you when you say that high intelligence is one of the reason I like to be alone. And even if it's also mean that I am in the wrong room, it's still hard to find the appropriate people with who you can have deep connections and intellectual satisfaction. Ai is the only thing that satisfy and challenge me enough and it feels so great!
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Thank you for the last point, I feel seen. Most people shame you or mock you when you say that high intelligence is one of the reason I like to be alone. And even if it's also mean that I am in the wrong room, it's still hard to find the appropriate people with who you can have deep connections and intellectual satisfaction. Ai is the only thing that satisfy and challenge me enough and it feels so great!
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psych2go
When I was 6 years old I did not like being around all the kids on the school bus so I walked to school
I did not like school to many people
till this day it's very difficult for me to be around people
I am a mind reader it just happens when I around people and I will also know there emotional state of mind
I stay away from people because of this
it's all to much for me .
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When I was 6 years old I did not like being around all the kids on the school bus so I walked to school
I did not like school to many people
till this day it's very difficult for me to be around people
I am a mind reader it just happens when I around people and I will also know there emotional state of mind
I stay away from people because of this
it's all to much for me .
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KT-4.
I immediatly feel like a third wheel if im hanging out with a friend and one of their friends comes in. I feel like in a group with an odd number of people, i can't speak without interrupting or derailing the conversation. I've hung out with some of my best friends, but if they get into a conversation, i've just walked off. I felt bad and appologized of course, but it bothers me still.
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I immediatly feel like a third wheel if im hanging out with a friend and one of their friends comes in. I feel like in a group with an odd number of people, i can't speak without interrupting or derailing the conversation. I've hung out with some of my best friends, but if they get into a conversation, i've just walked off. I felt bad and appologized of course, but it bothers me still.
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stephanie_berry
The reason for my struggle is that I am an HSP. I get overstimulated with too many people at once, because I can feel all their emotions at once, and it’s just too much for me! I want to know how to manage this, my inability to cope with too many feelings at one time, but I haven’t found the solution yet. I’m open to any feedback, thank you for this video
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The reason for my struggle is that I am an HSP. I get overstimulated with too many people at once, because I can feel all their emotions at once, and it’s just too much for me! I want to know how to manage this, my inability to cope with too many feelings at one time, but I haven’t found the solution yet. I’m open to any feedback, thank you for this video
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Justadroid636
Im alone 99% of the time. It can be lonely but its more peaceful cause i dont have to worry about another persons feelings. Im very highly sensitive and have social anxiety so theres that. I wish I could be like everyone else with a huge friend group everywhere but im just awkward and uncomfortable around large groups. I guess im going to be alone forever.
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Im alone 99% of the time. It can be lonely but its more peaceful cause i dont have to worry about another persons feelings. Im very highly sensitive and have social anxiety so theres that. I wish I could be like everyone else with a huge friend group everywhere but im just awkward and uncomfortable around large groups. I guess im going to be alone forever.
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t. kersten7695
as nice as it might be to be around other people sometimes, it is always good to not overdo it. it can be stressful and bothersom sometimes to have to meet the needs and wishes of other people and to manage the scjedules for it. and if you have a lot of people conctantly around you at your workplace, you might love your alone time to balance it out.
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as nice as it might be to be around other people sometimes, it is always good to not overdo it. it can be stressful and bothersom sometimes to have to meet the needs and wishes of other people and to manage the scjedules for it. and if you have a lot of people conctantly around you at your workplace, you might love your alone time to balance it out.
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Chahlie
I LOVE being around HAPPY people. Stressed, grumpy, nasty not so much. I worked as a server for a catering company, doing weddings and parties and I miss it so much! Now I'm in a sandwich shop where customers are either young guys on their lunch, or older folks trying to get the most for their money, and very rarely a happy person. I have given notice: (
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I LOVE being around HAPPY people. Stressed, grumpy, nasty not so much. I worked as a server for a catering company, doing weddings and parties and I miss it so much! Now I'm in a sandwich shop where customers are either young guys on their lunch, or older folks trying to get the most for their money, and very rarely a happy person. I have given notice: (
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coolkid3538
Well. It might be weird, but can you make a video about how to deal with SA and its forms, and what it leaves on the survivor, because actually I am struggling with SA
It's just a hard thing, it might be harder than losing someone, because you know that the person you love will be gone one day, but you don't think assault could happen to you.
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Well. It might be weird, but can you make a video about how to deal with SA and its forms, and what it leaves on the survivor, because actually I am struggling with SA
It's just a hard thing, it might be harder than losing someone, because you know that the person you love will be gone one day, but you don't think assault could happen to you.
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Hendrasuhandri
I love being around with others, but if it gets too crowded, i'm beginning to feel anxious, not like having a Panic Attack or Agoraphobia, for example when in a restaurant and the crowd is packed, it feels like there are no personal space, it's just feels like Uncomfortable, too many people arrgghhhh, time to get out
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I love being around with others, but if it gets too crowded, i'm beginning to feel anxious, not like having a Panic Attack or Agoraphobia, for example when in a restaurant and the crowd is packed, it feels like there are no personal space, it's just feels like Uncomfortable, too many people arrgghhhh, time to get out
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