Signs You Have Quiet BPD, Not Just Emotionally Insecurity
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Date: 2023-10-02
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blythe091
I know someone with BPD, I wouldn't wish that on my worse enemy.
It's so weird, because it's almost like you can actually mentally distiguish between the person themselves and the disorder. It's like it's something that doesn't actually integrate into their personality.
I'll call the person Bob. In Bob, I see a person that had a lot going for them. A capable, polite, intelligent, well meaning person. Then, if some mystery random event takes place, like perhaps 50 miles away some wind blew a leaf wrong, something just happens, and Bob becomes pure evil. He will say and do whatever he can to harm is target in any way, believing himself to be justified, and that the target of his anger is responsible for everything bad that has ever happened to him. Bob tends to apologize later, but what Bob misses is that people aren't actually upset or personally offended by his behavior, they are simply stunned and confused by it. I don't think Bob realizes that his fights with people do not make sense to anyone and look utterly bizarre. Apologies are accepted out of concern.
If you haven't experienced this, it's hard to explain. These aren't normal confrontations or arguments. This isn't a perpetually angry guy who is short with people or unapproachable. He comes off as relatively normal and agreeable, until whatever sets him off happens.
I haven't heard from him in a few years. He isn't friends with anyone anymore and he does not speak to his family. The story didn't end well, but hopefully it will in the future.
I wish this was something we could just pull out of a person's brain, because I can tell you right now, you can see what the person is really like without the affliction so clearly in this case. BPD is the actual mental disorder that characterizes Jeckyll and Hyde.
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I know someone with BPD, I wouldn't wish that on my worse enemy.
It's so weird, because it's almost like you can actually mentally distiguish between the person themselves and the disorder. It's like it's something that doesn't actually integrate into their personality.
I'll call the person Bob. In Bob, I see a person that had a lot going for them. A capable, polite, intelligent, well meaning person. Then, if some mystery random event takes place, like perhaps 50 miles away some wind blew a leaf wrong, something just happens, and Bob becomes pure evil. He will say and do whatever he can to harm is target in any way, believing himself to be justified, and that the target of his anger is responsible for everything bad that has ever happened to him. Bob tends to apologize later, but what Bob misses is that people aren't actually upset or personally offended by his behavior, they are simply stunned and confused by it. I don't think Bob realizes that his fights with people do not make sense to anyone and look utterly bizarre. Apologies are accepted out of concern.
If you haven't experienced this, it's hard to explain. These aren't normal confrontations or arguments. This isn't a perpetually angry guy who is short with people or unapproachable. He comes off as relatively normal and agreeable, until whatever sets him off happens.
I haven't heard from him in a few years. He isn't friends with anyone anymore and he does not speak to his family. The story didn't end well, but hopefully it will in the future.
I wish this was something we could just pull out of a person's brain, because I can tell you right now, you can see what the person is really like without the affliction so clearly in this case. BPD is the actual mental disorder that characterizes Jeckyll and Hyde.
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KT
Hello, I am genuinely curious about this because I believe my mom has BPD. I am concerned that it's possible I have some characteristics of BPD whether they are learned behaviors from my mom or whether I truly have a mental illness passed down genetically. However, I feel like this video needs a bit more detail/explaining as to the difference between QBPD and insecurity. I have more recently been increasingly insecure as I get into my 20-30s, but I would love to see more about this and what makes them different. I am still confused with the difference. Do you have some resources we can look at the do some research on our own if we want to know more?
I'm also curious what the difference is between QBPD and BPD. What makes it quiet? Is there research behind this? How is it not just general BPD? Would treatment for this be different than regular BPD?
Could you attach links to the websites you discussed in this video as well?
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Hello, I am genuinely curious about this because I believe my mom has BPD. I am concerned that it's possible I have some characteristics of BPD whether they are learned behaviors from my mom or whether I truly have a mental illness passed down genetically. However, I feel like this video needs a bit more detail/explaining as to the difference between QBPD and insecurity. I have more recently been increasingly insecure as I get into my 20-30s, but I would love to see more about this and what makes them different. I am still confused with the difference. Do you have some resources we can look at the do some research on our own if we want to know more?
I'm also curious what the difference is between QBPD and BPD. What makes it quiet? Is there research behind this? How is it not just general BPD? Would treatment for this be different than regular BPD?
Could you attach links to the websites you discussed in this video as well?
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Caitiff
In my life, Im been diagnised as having Borderline Personality Disorder. Ive also been diagnosed with AAD, ADHD, Bipolar Disorder, Major Depression, (I swear this is a real quote) God's own personal rage control issues, and (thanks to my most recent therapist) PTSD.
Honestly, I dont know whats wrong with me. I just want it to stop hurting. I want someone to care enough actually do things with me.
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In my life, Im been diagnised as having Borderline Personality Disorder. Ive also been diagnosed with AAD, ADHD, Bipolar Disorder, Major Depression, (I swear this is a real quote) God's own personal rage control issues, and (thanks to my most recent therapist) PTSD.
Honestly, I dont know whats wrong with me. I just want it to stop hurting. I want someone to care enough actually do things with me.
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Katelyn
it s so weird, i have like all the symptoms of quiet BPD, but i cant tell if it s just my anxiety, adhd, and depression in one. the main thing i ve been looking for with the BPD is my mood swings, my mood will change a lot throughout the day, there s obviously triggers, but the littlest things put me in a bad mood for hours. and then i ll go into these holes for days it s really confusing
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it s so weird, i have like all the symptoms of quiet BPD, but i cant tell if it s just my anxiety, adhd, and depression in one. the main thing i ve been looking for with the BPD is my mood swings, my mood will change a lot throughout the day, there s obviously triggers, but the littlest things put me in a bad mood for hours. and then i ll go into these holes for days it s really confusing
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Gaba
I was diagnosed with bipolar in January, went to therapy but couldn't afford it anymore after 3 months. Now I'm only on medications prescribed by psychiatrist. But for some reason BPD describes all my symptoms. What's the difference then? I think that video brought more confusion instead of clearance in mental disorders.
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I was diagnosed with bipolar in January, went to therapy but couldn't afford it anymore after 3 months. Now I'm only on medications prescribed by psychiatrist. But for some reason BPD describes all my symptoms. What's the difference then? I think that video brought more confusion instead of clearance in mental disorders.
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Big_Tyler_M
I just got broken up with about a month ago, and I've been just been so depressed. I made everything worse, we could have been freinds still, but I lashed out because I didn't understand why what was happening was happening. Now my partner hates me, and I've just been rotting away in my room.
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I just got broken up with about a month ago, and I've been just been so depressed. I made everything worse, we could have been freinds still, but I lashed out because I didn't understand why what was happening was happening. Now my partner hates me, and I've just been rotting away in my room.
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PinkFlamingo! <33
VENT!
As a child who watches your videos and has a bad friendship with someone who death threatens me, I watch your videos to help me find my self-esteem. (if your asking what kind of death threats, death threats like If you are not going to be thin until 19 your gonna die)
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VENT!
As a child who watches your videos and has a bad friendship with someone who death threatens me, I watch your videos to help me find my self-esteem. (if your asking what kind of death threats, death threats like If you are not going to be thin until 19 your gonna die)
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1unsung
CBT is a mystery to me. I tried it and I had no idea what emotion I was feeling or what triggered it. It's like being colour blind. However I recognise rage and sadness as they are constant companions. Life is strange and unpleasant.
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CBT is a mystery to me. I tried it and I had no idea what emotion I was feeling or what triggered it. It's like being colour blind. However I recognise rage and sadness as they are constant companions. Life is strange and unpleasant.
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Deven
Interestingly I have all of the symptoms of BPD except for as far as fear of abandonment goes, that only applies to me when I'm in love and have a crush so maybe I'm just insecure. I don't have a general fear of abandonment otherwise.
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Interestingly I have all of the symptoms of BPD except for as far as fear of abandonment goes, that only applies to me when I'm in love and have a crush so maybe I'm just insecure. I don't have a general fear of abandonment otherwise.
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Daniel
Thank you so much, I always get really angry and depressed and forget how much positives there are in my life. appreciate it. and your voice does turn me on. but is just non judgemental and I am grateful for your understanding.
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Thank you so much, I always get really angry and depressed and forget how much positives there are in my life. appreciate it. and your voice does turn me on. but is just non judgemental and I am grateful for your understanding.
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Paul
When you have a hammer in your hand, you start to see nails everywhere. The symptoms listed are non-specific and describe many forms of mood troubles. I appreciate that the scientists are sincere but this has signs of sciencism.
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When you have a hammer in your hand, you start to see nails everywhere. The symptoms listed are non-specific and describe many forms of mood troubles. I appreciate that the scientists are sincere but this has signs of sciencism.
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Orion
For a while now, I ve been convinced my father has undiagnosed BPD, and similar patterns have emerged in my mother and I over the years, possibly from prolonged exposure to his chaotic mindset.
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For a while now, I ve been convinced my father has undiagnosed BPD, and similar patterns have emerged in my mother and I over the years, possibly from prolonged exposure to his chaotic mindset.
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bcgrote
A therapist I had once described BPD as PTSD without a source. Which makes you wonder, if the doctors don't KNOW of the source of your distress, could some cases of BPD actually be PTSD?
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A therapist I had once described BPD as PTSD without a source. Which makes you wonder, if the doctors don't KNOW of the source of your distress, could some cases of BPD actually be PTSD?
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Noot-Noot
Hey can you tell me 2 things?
1. Why my friend keeps sending me your videos like a lot of them to convince me I have depression
2. Why the ones she sends are so accurate
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Hey can you tell me 2 things?
1. Why my friend keeps sending me your videos like a lot of them to convince me I have depression
2. Why the ones she sends are so accurate
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Simbaibass
The DSM is just a way for academic s to justify their own existence. These are almost all attachment issues. Quiet BPD is not a thing.
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The DSM is just a way for academic s to justify their own existence. These are almost all attachment issues. Quiet BPD is not a thing.
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koko
i really don t wanna have this cause i wouldn t have a clue where to start to get help. but i keep relating to this more and more: /
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i really don t wanna have this cause i wouldn t have a clue where to start to get help. but i keep relating to this more and more: /
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