6 Signs You're Depressed, Not Lazy
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Sushi
Thank you so much for this video
My depression has been getting worst lately, I feel physically and emotionally drained all the time, Im always exhausted, and I have no energy. Ive tried getting back onto my feet but it seems nothing is really working anymore
My mom has been all over me about this thinking its because I have social skills now (I previously was battling bad social anxiety) so Ive been attempting to hang out with friends more (even that is getting hard tho, shes always belittling me and making me feel bad that Im not as active as I once was cause my energy is so low and that Im not functioning as I once was, shes constantly guilting me and getting mad at me everyday which really isnt helping my mental state, I feel lazy and guilty/bad for barely having motivation to do anything.
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Thank you so much for this video
My depression has been getting worst lately, I feel physically and emotionally drained all the time, Im always exhausted, and I have no energy. Ive tried getting back onto my feet but it seems nothing is really working anymore
My mom has been all over me about this thinking its because I have social skills now (I previously was battling bad social anxiety) so Ive been attempting to hang out with friends more (even that is getting hard tho, shes always belittling me and making me feel bad that Im not as active as I once was cause my energy is so low and that Im not functioning as I once was, shes constantly guilting me and getting mad at me everyday which really isnt helping my mental state, I feel lazy and guilty/bad for barely having motivation to do anything.
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Elise
When you care so much for so long and then just can't care anymore. When you feel like you're screaming and screaming for help but people don't ever notice until you go silent. When you're sometimes able to feel incredibly brief flickers of happiness or positive emotions but then they're gone just as quickly. That's what depression is to me, and you're right, it's NEVER my choice to feel this way. If I could feel differently, I would, but it's just not that simple. When I have depression, it's not something I have control over, especially when it gets bad. All I want is for people to tell me that I'm enough as I am and to accept me, broken bits and all, but that's getting so hard to find. Sometimes when my depression tells me I'm alone in my struggles, it gets pretty easy to believe it.
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When you care so much for so long and then just can't care anymore. When you feel like you're screaming and screaming for help but people don't ever notice until you go silent. When you're sometimes able to feel incredibly brief flickers of happiness or positive emotions but then they're gone just as quickly. That's what depression is to me, and you're right, it's NEVER my choice to feel this way. If I could feel differently, I would, but it's just not that simple. When I have depression, it's not something I have control over, especially when it gets bad. All I want is for people to tell me that I'm enough as I am and to accept me, broken bits and all, but that's getting so hard to find. Sometimes when my depression tells me I'm alone in my struggles, it gets pretty easy to believe it.
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Iamtoastyyy
Recently my depression has gotten worse to the point of where all I do is sleep most of the time and skip on meals, and my mom asked me why I haven't been doing anything as of late. When I responded with my mental state has been worsening really bad as of late she's aware I have depression, I've had it since I was 12 she responded with well you gotta get out of that and do something about it and it's like. I wish I could but everytime I try I just. cant, and it's so frustrating because she doesn't have it, so I know she can't understand how I feel, but I really wish she did
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Recently my depression has gotten worse to the point of where all I do is sleep most of the time and skip on meals, and my mom asked me why I haven't been doing anything as of late. When I responded with my mental state has been worsening really bad as of late she's aware I have depression, I've had it since I was 12 she responded with well you gotta get out of that and do something about it and it's like. I wish I could but everytime I try I just. cant, and it's so frustrating because she doesn't have it, so I know she can't understand how I feel, but I really wish she did
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LazyCrazy
I feel like I get depressed now days, It never happened to me before and it feels weird. Like I have no one that inspires me and I get unmotivated, and dont get point of living and I cant laugh or smile. I want to go to therapist but Im scared to go and causing my mom worried. School also been hard for me than it was before, I feel like everyone is avoiding me and feel like Im invisible. I even found out that my friend was saying things about me behind my back to my friends and almost the whole grade.
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I feel like I get depressed now days, It never happened to me before and it feels weird. Like I have no one that inspires me and I get unmotivated, and dont get point of living and I cant laugh or smile. I want to go to therapist but Im scared to go and causing my mom worried. School also been hard for me than it was before, I feel like everyone is avoiding me and feel like Im invisible. I even found out that my friend was saying things about me behind my back to my friends and almost the whole grade.
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aya
i wanna gwt help. its so bad im actually getting body pains, i dont wanna self diagnose which is why i told my mom i wanna go tk a psychologist. she promised, twice and she still acts like she forgot or sumn idk. i hate asking for help and maybe ik faking all of this but i still wanna check w a psychologist. i already feel disgusted w myself bc what if im fr faking? i cant tell my mol for the third time its so embarrassing and im done ill jist go alone once im 18 or sumn
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i wanna gwt help. its so bad im actually getting body pains, i dont wanna self diagnose which is why i told my mom i wanna go tk a psychologist. she promised, twice and she still acts like she forgot or sumn idk. i hate asking for help and maybe ik faking all of this but i still wanna check w a psychologist. i already feel disgusted w myself bc what if im fr faking? i cant tell my mol for the third time its so embarrassing and im done ill jist go alone once im 18 or sumn
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Saitha
Well, yes I'm going through all this and I talked with my parents that I might have depression and they even said we would see a therapist but It's been a week since we talked and I have been feeling horrible and irritated both physically and mentally and I have been laying on my bed. and My mum and dad said I should stop pretending and stop making them feel weird. I myself want to get out of this cause I know I am losing time. but I just can't get out of this.
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Well, yes I'm going through all this and I talked with my parents that I might have depression and they even said we would see a therapist but It's been a week since we talked and I have been feeling horrible and irritated both physically and mentally and I have been laying on my bed. and My mum and dad said I should stop pretending and stop making them feel weird. I myself want to get out of this cause I know I am losing time. but I just can't get out of this.
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George
What is a good med combo or just one medicine that worked for them? Iam in lexapro and Wellbutrin. Its okay some days are better than others.
I think life wears on people and some can do okay and keep bouncing back from the struggles of life but some its something that wears on you mentally and maybe physically and it just brings you down and down the next thing you know you are down to to nothing and its hard to get up and moving again
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What is a good med combo or just one medicine that worked for them? Iam in lexapro and Wellbutrin. Its okay some days are better than others.
I think life wears on people and some can do okay and keep bouncing back from the struggles of life but some its something that wears on you mentally and maybe physically and it just brings you down and down the next thing you know you are down to to nothing and its hard to get up and moving again
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annabell
I've been watching these videos for awhile and i constantly kept showing signs of depression, so i decided to get diagnosed and thank you guys so much i have found out i have server depression and i getting help. i thought i was faking being sad for attention or something and it made it worst to think like that so if you think your faking it or doing it for attention its most likely not true. have a wonderful day everyone: )
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I've been watching these videos for awhile and i constantly kept showing signs of depression, so i decided to get diagnosed and thank you guys so much i have found out i have server depression and i getting help. i thought i was faking being sad for attention or something and it made it worst to think like that so if you think your faking it or doing it for attention its most likely not true. have a wonderful day everyone: )
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Nyx
What if one cant tell wether theyre being lazy by choice or not? Like they dont feel the motivation to study for an exam that is coming up the very next day. Like they can snap out of staring at their phone for a bit to study for a bit by writing a practice question or 2, but get distracted immediately after or just stop again. They feel like they could go back but just doesnt cause they dont feel like it. Is that lazy?
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What if one cant tell wether theyre being lazy by choice or not? Like they dont feel the motivation to study for an exam that is coming up the very next day. Like they can snap out of staring at their phone for a bit to study for a bit by writing a practice question or 2, but get distracted immediately after or just stop again. They feel like they could go back but just doesnt cause they dont feel like it. Is that lazy?
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Vamp
I know this was a long time ago, but I just realized that I been dealing with this for a about 1-2 yrs and never cared to reach out for help(still havent, thinking about it though) it is really hard talking about your feelings, when you feel like your bugging someone. You try not to ghost people but do because your just so tired to even text.
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I know this was a long time ago, but I just realized that I been dealing with this for a about 1-2 yrs and never cared to reach out for help(still havent, thinking about it though) it is really hard talking about your feelings, when you feel like your bugging someone. You try not to ghost people but do because your just so tired to even text.
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Coco
I feel like I am suffering from depression but Im only a kid and I cant just go to my mum and dad and say I have depression, can I go to a mental health professional. I dont know what to do, do I just spend the next couple of years suffering until I move out and actually go see someone? I really dont know what to do at this stage in my life.
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I feel like I am suffering from depression but Im only a kid and I cant just go to my mum and dad and say I have depression, can I go to a mental health professional. I dont know what to do, do I just spend the next couple of years suffering until I move out and actually go see someone? I really dont know what to do at this stage in my life.
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ImPathetic2
Depression is something Ive always struggled with and still do to this day, I remember when I was like 15 I wanted to do something very horrible to myself but I just couldnt bring myself to do it cause I knew it would bring pain to my family and friends, if anyone is dealing with depression, I just want to say your not alone
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Depression is something Ive always struggled with and still do to this day, I remember when I was like 15 I wanted to do something very horrible to myself but I just couldnt bring myself to do it cause I knew it would bring pain to my family and friends, if anyone is dealing with depression, I just want to say your not alone
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education
Yes I can relate to most if not all. But I feel like if I really believe Im depressed its like Im taking the ez way out and making an excuse for myself. Idk y I think that but I feel as if saying I have depression ppl would say hes just making an excuse. no your not just lazy. So I dont rly tell anyone besides my best friend
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Yes I can relate to most if not all. But I feel like if I really believe Im depressed its like Im taking the ez way out and making an excuse for myself. Idk y I think that but I feel as if saying I have depression ppl would say hes just making an excuse. no your not just lazy. So I dont rly tell anyone besides my best friend
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Lovely
Depression isn't a choice. If you ever feel wronged for being depressed, just always remember this is NOT your fault. Do not let things or words like that get to you. Be selfish for once and get out of the loop of toxicity. Surround yourself with self-love. Make yourself a priority because you more than deserve that.
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Depression isn't a choice. If you ever feel wronged for being depressed, just always remember this is NOT your fault. Do not let things or words like that get to you. Be selfish for once and get out of the loop of toxicity. Surround yourself with self-love. Make yourself a priority because you more than deserve that.
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soupOOT
my self-esteem is so low. i always blame myself and say im shit at everything and i do everything wrong. but, everyone thinks im doing it for attention, considering im smart and everything. and turns out that became another reason to blame myself even more. im not fine, and i dunno if i can keep up hiding that
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my self-esteem is so low. i always blame myself and say im shit at everything and i do everything wrong. but, everyone thinks im doing it for attention, considering im smart and everything. and turns out that became another reason to blame myself even more. im not fine, and i dunno if i can keep up hiding that
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Tommy
I got depression from going though my from my chemotherapy treatment I don't get so much social interaction only get to talk to people though text and my chemo it made my lose my all my hair and changed my taste and smell and that treatment took so long that I got depressed and I even was a bit suicidal.
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I got depression from going though my from my chemotherapy treatment I don't get so much social interaction only get to talk to people though text and my chemo it made my lose my all my hair and changed my taste and smell and that treatment took so long that I got depressed and I even was a bit suicidal.
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i_need_therapy_
How does a 12 year old girl tell her mom that her daughter might have depression even tho she trys so hard to make me happy? What if she thinks that she failed me? What if she just thinks I'm being a attention seeker? Or what if she feels bad for my problems like if she caused them? Yeah
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How does a 12 year old girl tell her mom that her daughter might have depression even tho she trys so hard to make me happy? What if she thinks that she failed me? What if she just thinks I'm being a attention seeker? Or what if she feels bad for my problems like if she caused them? Yeah
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PandaBytes
I've gotten to the point where I just straight up feel guilty for asking for help. Not joking here, but I've spent more than 12 of the last 24 months in the hospital due to the severity of my depression. I don't know why I can't find ANY, not even a tiny sliver, motivation to keep going.
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I've gotten to the point where I just straight up feel guilty for asking for help. Not joking here, but I've spent more than 12 of the last 24 months in the hospital due to the severity of my depression. I don't know why I can't find ANY, not even a tiny sliver, motivation to keep going.
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education
Ive been diagnosed with depression ptsd and anxiety but when I talk to the man I love the most he tells me its just a mindset and that I can change my way of thinking. I just dont know how. No matter how much therapy and prescription pills I still feel alone and like I want to die.
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Ive been diagnosed with depression ptsd and anxiety but when I talk to the man I love the most he tells me its just a mindset and that I can change my way of thinking. I just dont know how. No matter how much therapy and prescription pills I still feel alone and like I want to die.
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Cookiee
I think I have depression and social anxiety after looking it up but I have no way to reach for help as a child. I've tried to ask my parents but they are always confused and never actually helped. I dont trust other adults enough and I have no friends. What should I do? Please help
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I think I have depression and social anxiety after looking it up but I have no way to reach for help as a child. I've tried to ask my parents but they are always confused and never actually helped. I dont trust other adults enough and I have no friends. What should I do? Please help
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Jayy
When i confessed to my mom that i dont feel good inside and I cant find enjoyment Ab things i liked in the past and i feel empty. And she told me No ur just lazy. Your always on your phone and do nothing! And u cry ab that ur not enough! Its just a phase. And that is make me more hurt.
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When i confessed to my mom that i dont feel good inside and I cant find enjoyment Ab things i liked in the past and i feel empty. And she told me No ur just lazy. Your always on your phone and do nothing! And u cry ab that ur not enough! Its just a phase. And that is make me more hurt.
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Madi
I was just about to ask why I sometimes enjoy feeling like crap. But now I really have no idea. :[ I hate every second of it, but then I like it, I want to enjoy feeling happy, but it often feels like I'm on a fish hook being pulled to a sadder state, cause it's easier.
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I was just about to ask why I sometimes enjoy feeling like crap. But now I really have no idea. :[ I hate every second of it, but then I like it, I want to enjoy feeling happy, but it often feels like I'm on a fish hook being pulled to a sadder state, cause it's easier.
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Brandon
Depression isnt a choice
I wish I could scream this at my family for all the times they just called me lazy and Ive dealt with depression since I was 8 years old, its been 30 years and I still cant bring myself out of it, even medication didnt work
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Depression isnt a choice
I wish I could scream this at my family for all the times they just called me lazy and Ive dealt with depression since I was 8 years old, its been 30 years and I still cant bring myself out of it, even medication didnt work
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Alejandra
This whole week Ive been so sad and I didnt even know why I was so sad Ive cried every night and today at work during lunch I sat in my car crying for a hour not understanding this feeling I had I felt so empty and lonely
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This whole week Ive been so sad and I didnt even know why I was so sad Ive cried every night and today at work during lunch I sat in my car crying for a hour not understanding this feeling I had I felt so empty and lonely
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Soup
Now just to example the his is my grandma that doesnt believe in mental health problems and says they are just a feeling
Edit: I showed her this video and her response was depression is just a feeling thats not true Welp
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Now just to example the his is my grandma that doesnt believe in mental health problems and says they are just a feeling
Edit: I showed her this video and her response was depression is just a feeling thats not true Welp
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