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HEARTBREAKING Quaden Bayles Conspiracy Controversy, Weinstein GUILTY, Bernie Sanders Cuba Backlash

HEARTBREAKING Quaden Bayles Conspiracy Controversy, Weinstein GUILTY, Bernie Sanders Cuba Backlash

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HEARTBREAKING Quaden Bayles Conspiracy Controversy, Weinstein GUILTY, Bernie Sanders Cuba Backlash FaithTheFallen: The recording Quaden issue is hard, honestly. I can get the mums instinct, especially if there's been a long term issue with bullying and she feels the school isn't doing anything. I do remember there being vicious physical bullying going on in my school and there was sod all done about it, it was considered kids being kids despite one of those teenagers regularly getting the crap beaten out of him because the aggressor was racist. However, I do also really get the concerns with this lads name forever being associated with him wanting to kill himself. That's a really really hard thing to balance, and while his mum might hope doing this will mean other children don't get the same pain it's difficult to know what the long term impact for him will be. Also the internet backlash is not surprising, alas.
Date: 2020-02-25

Comments and reviews: 9


Way to go Phill I too have PKD, and am just about to start on Dialysis. You're doing a great thing for both your health, and the welfare of your family. For my family, the first we knew of PKD was when my father was diagnosed as having PKD on a post mortem after being killed in the line of duty as an Oakland Police Department Helicopter Pilot many many years ago. Then in the 1980's both my brother and I were found to have it. I then had three children in '89, '92, '96. Two of my children have it, and now, we are waiting to hear if any of my 4 grandaughters have this as well. Now, we are hoping to stop introducing this dreadful disease that brings so much pain and heartache to us all, to our progeny. I am starting a savings find in my families name in order to gather up funds saved through yearly deposits, tax return money, and eventually through life insurance benefits and money added by my children or other family members etc. My hope is to have enough money that when my grandchildren or great grandchildren are old enough to want to start a family, they will have available the funds to see a Geneticist. That way they can have their biological children without passing on to yet another generation the devistation this illness brings, and leaves in it's wake. Imagine Phill, we could wipe this disease out of our family's futures I know you have two beautiful Brite little boys of your own, and I hope that neither one is afflicted by this. But if they have it or are carriers of it, I urge you to set aside a Trust for them, that they have the financial wherewithall to take advantage of the truly groundbreaking work being done in Genetic research. People who say the only who should be able to splice or work on genes is God, has never had to watch their loved suffer in agonizing pain. I call my plan the Trust For the Future. Hope this inspires you, or any of your readers to think about what we pass on, and what we can do about it. Anyone interested in this subject and idea, please feel free to comment or click on my link. Thanks again for another good show Phill, keep the AWESOME flowing
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I think filming your child during their darkest moment is a mis-step. I've seen the argument that he won't have a future if the video wasn't posted. His classmates and every other person he meets will have seen that extremely dark intimate (not to mention personal) moment which could drive him even closer to following through with the suicide he has already planned out. Would you want everyone including people you don't know to see you at your darkest moment? If it were me in the mother's situation I would have gone to the school, spoke with the teachers/ Dean and had all the bullies sit down and talk with my son with adult supervision on school grounds and have my son tell these bullies exactly how they make him feel. Once the bullies see how much of an effect they've made on my kid and have adults in the room to explain why what these bullies did was wrong, I truly believe they will change. Kids can be assholes some times but I believe with proper guidance from us they can change their outlook and how they act. I would also like to say please don't send the mother anymore hate. She was desperate to save her son's life. We would all make a rash decision to try and protect our children.
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I was bullied relentlessly for almost a year in school. The thought of my mom releasing a video of me crying for the whole world to see is just mortifying The bullies can now make fun of the video too, and call me a crybaby on top of everything else I would have felt that the person who was supposed to help me just threw me to the lions and made things WAY worse, and I would never have the same trust in her again. There really is no quick fix to bullying, unfortunately. Parents need to be truly attentive to their children and make an effort to raise them to be empathetic. They have to realize that kids learn by what their parents DO, not by what they SAY They probably shouldnt give their kids unlimited access to social media when they are so young. I think kids deserve more privacy rights than they have. People plaster their kids all over the internet, whether or not the kid wants that, its absurd, and I think it sends a wrong message to them.
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If you want bullying to stop, we need a few things to happen: 1) Parents, stop bullying your kids. They will take out their frustrations on others, often in the ways that you took out your frustrations on them. 2) Stop age-segregating education. You're creating lord-of-the-flies situations where children are not learning their interpersonal skills from adults, but from other equally immature children. 3) Stop thinking of education as something that happens in a classroom. There are too few teachers to give a classroom of children the guidance they need. We need less out-of-sight-out-of-mind under the care of a teacher, and more integration into community under the care of personally-invested parents and mentors. Don't blame the children who are bullies, they are doing their best with what they were taught in the environment they know. It's up to adults to stop creating and enabling the problem.
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I think the most disgusting thing about the bullying story is the mother filming him. I was bullied in one form or another throughout my entire childhood. What kept me going was not seeing myself as a victim, but a fighter. Every single day was a battle that i usually lost, but I kept fighting for myself. Anything my parents did to help was contraproductuve since getting extra sympathies from teachers, and having classmates forced to pretent to be my friends obviously just made me feel more like a weak and inadequate human being. But had they posted me and what i went through to social media, I would have been a victim forever. There would have been absolutely nothing to fight for anymore. I also strongly feel like his situation is being used by the mother for money and attention. But that's just what my spider-sense is telling me.
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I went to a DOD school filled with military kids. A bit different environment. When we had bullies the other kids got together and bullied the bully and let them know that crap didn't fly there. It worked. I wish my children could go to a school like mine. My daughter was bullied in middle school and it pissed me off. The school did nothing until I came in and told their principal that if these oxygen thieves touch my daughter she will hurt them. If there was any blowback on her I would make his school famous. She never defended herself but did defend a friend. She got frozen yogurt that day. This start a dialogue garbage does not work. If kids attack other kids they need to have the threat of expulsion. Oh, it might affect their lives? Not as much as growing up as an asshole.
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Regarding the quaden situation, I can't say that it's a good idea to share such a dark moment of a child getting bullied. When I was a kid, I told my school psychiatrist I was suicidal and she told her son who went to the school about me, who told other kids about it, and suddenly kids were intentionally trying to make my life so miserable that I hurt myself. People need to understand that children are biologically incapable of feeling empathy. They're lacking in mirror cells that don't fully develop until around 21, they will not feel bad about hurting other kids. We need to stop trying to get them to be considerate and make more severe consequences to the kids who feel safe being complete monsters
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Yeah, while watching the video of Quaden like. I read the title of the video so I didn't know whether or not the conspiracy part was legit and what I expected it was going to be, but still. I figured even if the story wasn't going to be going to that sort of scamming conclusion, why the heck was it like the mother saw her child in tears and thought I'm going to turn this into an off the cuff anti-bullying PSA to spread awareness for other kids before being like I'm going to comfort my child and then maybe get him a therapist or at least a school councilor to talk to while I tear into the people running the school if they don't figure out how to get this problem solved immediately
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I played on sports teams with and against people who were very much bullies all throughout elementary and high school. They were pushed along and all the horrible crap they said about people was pushed under the rug because they were good at their sport of choice. Bottom line is that MOST teachers dont care, and the curriculum itself against bullying is usually along the lines of if youre a bully consider how it makes others feel instead of if youre a bully youre a terrible person. The vast majority of bullies wont stop unless they are called out and shamed in front of their peers, Ive seen it happen and Ive been involved a couple of times. No fun.
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